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We talk all the time about what we wear - how about we have some fun on what we like on our female counterparts? I feel we have a great perspective on this.

Whenever Ive stumbled on this topic it seems people prefer nothing. Valid, though some of the reasoning sucks imo. "Why put on something that will get removed in 3 minutes?"

As far as going all out with pretty sets sometimes theres pushback "Id like him to know how it feels" Well . . . no issues there for us LOL.

Personally, love full sets. Big lace guy. Wide waistband - I feel it forms their body quite nice. The wide waistband actually helps in their case - sometimes we guys are not so lucky as we all have expressed as such in some distaste for the wide waistband haha!

Some women seem to express perhaps wanting to be in prettier clothing than their man - not fair lol! I think Id feel the same - in a friendly competition way. Who has the better lingerie collection and worse addiction?

Full set - garter - stockings - lace it up. What do you guys enjoy?

Oddly (tho perhaps not -- maybe more symmetry?) -- I prefer a girl who's wearing skimpy thongs or bikinis, along with a small tank or T. Simple & revealing.

Why put on something that will get removed in 3 minutes?"
Then why wrap presents?

One of the most erotic thing for me is the slow removal of clothing revealing something sexy or spicy. I absolutely adore seeing my partner in a thong. I am attracted to women wearing lingerie sets in private and wearing thong bikinis at the pool or beach. For me there is nothing sexier than someone wearing a thong. I do my best to dress as desirable for my partners. Stripping down to a special print thong or an unexpected color routinely produces gasps of joy. I’ll gasp too if my partner surprises me with sexy lingerie (bustier, garters, teddy, Demi bra) and a sexy little thong.

Sometimes it is fun to let my partner choose what I will wear. I d had this happen for both beach wear and for date night. For date night I can start with a suit or something else of her choice ending with what thong I get to wear. I’ve had her allow me that privilege with her as well.

Sometimes the most fun is unwrapping the present.

My first wife wore bikinis when we met and switched to Granny panties after she had the babies.
My second ex-wife wore high cut panties. I insisted that she let me pick out her panties.

We both wear micro bikinis, thongs and G strings, my wife and I (actually I buy them all) really like Wicked Weasel thongs and swimwear, she has an extensive collection. She really likes that I'm confident enough to wear thongs and G strings and wear them to the beach as well.
I love the idea of a demi bra, but she hasn't got one yet, maybe thats a good Christmas present?

GenX_MCMLXXI wrote: Sun Nov 26, 2023 7:03 pm My first wife wore bikinis when we met and switched to Granny panties after she had the babies.
My second ex-wife wore high cut panties. I insisted that she let me pick out her panties.

I wouldn't dream of insisting that I should pick out a partner's underwear, and anyone who tried to do the same to me would quickly be shown the door.

TANGA TANGA wrote: Mon Nov 27, 2023 4:40 am

GenX_MCMLXXI wrote: Sun Nov 26, 2023 7:03 pm My first wife wore bikinis when we met and switched to Granny panties after she had the babies.
My second ex-wife wore high cut panties. I insisted that she let me pick out her panties.

I wouldn't dream of insisting that I should pick out a partner's underwear, and anyone who tried to do the same to me would quickly be shown the door.

Yep totally!

TANGA TANGA wrote: Mon Nov 27, 2023 4:40 am

GenX_MCMLXXI wrote: Sun Nov 26, 2023 7:03 pm My first wife wore bikinis when we met and switched to Granny panties after she had the babies.
My second ex-wife wore high cut panties. I insisted that she let me pick out her panties.

I wouldn't dream of insisting that I should pick out a partner's underwear, and anyone who tried to do the same to me would quickly be shown the door.

If I thought she would not appreciate it, I would never even dare suggest it. I bought her a few panties and she really liked them and told me that I had good taste in women's underwear. You just have to know your partner.

My wife had been wearing swim dresses or skirted tankinis the last few years, but for our last vacation she wore some 'brief' tankini bottoms, and looked great!
I definitely think I was a good influence on her!

Something Ive learned is that women carry many many many ideas about their bodies that are just plain wrong. Sadly, it means 0 confidence anything from showing legs, shoulders, arms even. Its not even us trying to be a good influence lol. Its really self directed. Truth will always be no one cares about anyone but themselves at the beach or at the pool. Much less if its summer and its freaking hot.

However a win is a win. If we can be a good influence . . .

Imagine! Some lovely ladies really believe they dont deserve to wear a matching panty and bra set! What?? How!!

If i ever marry . . . my future wife is in a for a big shopping spree if she shows up with an old multipack Walmart stuff. Not in my household! We gotta feel confident and rock the good stuff!