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Good morning guys,

I was just wondering how many of you guys associate underwear with a sexual experience. I remember the underwear I wore when I was 16 (red Jockey elance bikinis) before me and my girlfriend did the deed for the first time. I remember feeling like I was going to pop out of those briefs leading up to that experience. It was also exciting as she had never seen my underwear before.

Likewise, when I was 18 and working a summer job at the local marina. I had to wear white shorts with white underwear, either white bikini briefs or plain white briefs. In my time there one summer I met an older man ( around 65)that frequented there and we struck up a friendship. After a few weeks, I ended up at his home to help him some yard/house work. He was a widower and I think he enjoyed the company. He ended up making the first move and after some body contact and him stating his intentions we got down to business. After my shorts were off he made the comment, “well I guess if we go any further I have to get you out of those little white panties.” I don’t know why but that always turned me on. Each time we got together after that he would always he would always make a comment similar to that one. It would always drive me wild.

I guess at some level -- all of them! I've had quite a few remarks over the years -- not sure if there's any one instance that really stands out, especially early in life, when I was a teenager, as that would have been late 80s and early 90s...not unusual for a guy to wear bikini underwear back then. More recently, there have been more remarks (always positive!) about what I was wearing. Everything from excited "bikinis!" to questions from an old friend along the lines of "do you still wear those tiny briefs?"

I remember that I wore a white string bikini brief the day I lost my virginity to a woman 10 years older than me. I kept that string bikini for years, just as a reminder of my first time, and how she kept caressing my penis through my underwear.

I wore a pair of jockey elance bikini..red when i lost my virginity to a girl, and with a guy af orange and white dot boxers

When I initially started dating my wife we were both coming off dysfunctional prior relationships. We both agreed it would not be wise to rush into the sexual dimension despite the fact we were highly attracted to one another. On many occasions before we went all the way we did a whole lot of touching above the waistline. Sometimes she would unbutton my pants and do delicate touches just above and around my underwear waistband but didn’t directly touch below there. It was highly erotic and engaging. The anticipation was unreal. The only unfortunate reality is I was wearing dumb boxers at that time, so I don’t associate the vivid memory to the sexier underwear styles I now prefer. However, to this day, the memories of those early encounters when the anticipation was so high are still etched in my mind. I still love to have her gently tease me with my underwear on during foreplay. It remains a huge turn on.