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Hello there and happy new years to you all.

So 2025 is starting off well for me. I'll just reintroduce myself first. I've been strictly wearing thongs since 2022. I'm in no way a model in terms of body shape, in fact, I'm quite overweight, short, stocky, hairless, and nerdy looking but I started wearing thongs out of curiosity and it stuck. I made a female friend in a D&D circle in our city, she's short and chubby as well, wears pigtails and glasses and all. Because of a series of embarrassing events, she found out I wear thongs, particularly triangle-backed mens g-strings. She then revealed to me she is super into thongs as well. Though, most of the time we were platonic and just enjoying talking about wearing thongs, g-strings and bikinis, talking that much about underwear, 'packages', shaving/waxing etc. didn't last long and as of 2025, we're dating!

My girlfriend and I look similar and even if we've never had any kind of sexual experience whatsoever and have yet to try it, we've already talked about each other's sensitive parts and we're helping each other get over the insecurity on it. We already know we're both on the large and unathletic side, but she has a flat chest and I have an extremely small package. Still, I still wear thongs and especially G-strings so that my little bud would look bigger even a bit, she also has no problem wearing stringy and strapless bras to maker herself look bigger too. Then again, we're both unbothered by each others' smallness and enjoy lounging around the house in just our thongs. She is a massive fan of the Victoria's Secret V-String line and has dozens of it, while I have custom made G-strings from Jovanna design and just ordinary bikini thongs from Covermale.

Around after Christmas, while just being around each other in our underwear, she got to see my crotch area and finds that I did quite a poor job shaving down there so she and I are getting a Brazilian wax very soon. I also shave my underarms (the only two places I have body hair in) and we'll get waxed there too along with my girlfriend's older sister. My girlfriend has an older sister, well into her 30s and still single-since-birth, chubby like us and all. We recently took each other shopping just the three of us. The sister has always been only wearing Aliexpress-bought tanga bikini panties and my girlfriend and I managed to convince this shy creature to try out thongs as we both enjoy it. It was a fun shopping experience as we brought her to Victoria's Secret to get her own V-strings (luckily there were some that stretched enough to fit her) and the department store to buy two piece bikinis for herself. My girlfriend wears Brazillian backed two piece suits with tie sides and I wear those narrow-sided diving bikinis (been wearing similar suits since I was 10). So we started her sister off with just a more modest full back two piece tie-side bikini as well, just some gradient colored ones, very nice actually.

Kind of looking forward to having a sexual experience with my girlfriend, it will be both our first times. I just never pictured doing it at all with both me and her wearing skimpy thongs, this wasnt at all how I envisioned myself when I yearned for 'it' many years ago hahahahaha.

Congratulations on your relationship. It sounds like you have found a wonderful person to share experiences that you both enjoy. May you find continued happiness.

Great story! Thanks for sharing

Reodid congratulations on finding a lovely lady to share your thong enthusiasm with. It is good when two can agree, even if on simple stuff such as underwear; and not just tolerate one’s likes. Super job nudging your GF sister to try a more skimpy style as well. Good luck with where the road leads you.

Thank you very guys for the well wishes and support, yeah it's been great. Though sometimes, while I try to swim and get a workout in a week, people have stared puzzled at my thong underwear, at least I know when I go home or meet my girlfriend, she and I will never judge each other despite not being the typical kind of people who would wear skimpy undies as both of us are chubby, nerdy, Asian folk.

Hey there, hope you continue to update this thread.

I am like you too. Asian and chubby. But unlike you, I am single and I have never been intimate with anyone. Your story gives me hope.

reoDID wrote: Fri Jan 10, 2025 10:45 am Thank you very guys for the well wishes and support, yeah it's been great. Though sometimes, while I try to swim and get a workout in a week, people have stared puzzled at my thong underwear, at least I know when I go home or meet my girlfriend, she and I will never judge each other despite not being the typical kind of people who would wear skimpy undies as both of us are chubby, nerdy, Asian folk.

This is awesome to read. I've travelled through SE Asia, including Singapore and kind of thought thongs weren't as common just based on what I see in the stores or looking at VPLs, so its cool to hear you found someone you can relate to and accepts you!

Thanks for the continued support guys!

So my girlfriend and I have been shopping for thong style swimsuits. We wanted to try wearing swim thongs since it will be both our first time doing so, as we're going to a private pool. Just me and her. I've known no other swimsuit other than those diving swim bikinis that boys wear underneath for waterpolo, so this will be quite interesting. Not quite ready to bare it all for all to see, my friends have already seen me wear speedo 1"'s and budgie smugglers to the pool already and although they joke about it, I'm surprisingly not the only one wearing it. Is it making a comeback haha? I had to get a custom iSwim in like severalXL's (which had an extra fee) but I think I will stick to a bikini thong first with string sides and a Y shaped back, just waiting for it to arrive.

Thanks for the update. That is great news. First time thonging in public? Good thing you're not doing this alone.

kiyoothong wrote: Wed Feb 05, 2025 7:13 am Thanks for the update. That is great news. First time thonging in public? Good thing you're not doing this alone.

Yeah first time. Speedos are actually not uncommon in Singapore since Waterpolo and competitive diving is huge in the culture and we've been wearing briefs of all kinds of cuts to the pool, as well as for underwear. Thongs though, its controversial to say the least.