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Background
So, I'm really into health and fitness and am one of those 'rare' guys who actually likes leg training; training Quads and Glutes, specifically.

I focus on these areas not just because they are very important for overall mobility but because of the aesthetic appeal, as well. I like to think I have an ok rump but of course I think it still needs quite a bit of fine tuning. Never the less I am a everyday G-string and Thong wearer; my lady knows and well, lets just say "she more than approves" lol

In any case, my girlfriend seems to be quite fond of my booty and loves to grab and 'pat' it when passing...frequently! Oh and she will also grab it and giggle it!!! I feel so emasculated and she gets such a playful kick out it

I try to give in an let her have her way but man! Its so OMG, please no lol.

You would think it wouldn't be a problem BUT it's not the most comfortable thing for me. It's just weird to me; a girl grabbing, shaking and

slapping on my azz, its like a role reverse to me .

Any thoughts, feelings or impression are welcome

Questions
Is this really a thing (girls grabbing, slapping and giggling a man's azz)? ...or just my girls "fetish"?
What should I do?

Not sure where you live but in the UK it’s certainly NOT rare for men to keep fit and exercise glutes or any other part of the body or partners to be affectionate !

To each their own, but I don’t see the problem. Your girl wants to touch and feel you. Why is that so bad? As for whether this is unique to your girlfriend I would say it isn’t but I also hate to generalize things. That being said I’ve had many women I’ve dated be the same way. I’ve also had some that weren’t. Personally I’d say try and get past it and enjoy it for what it is. She likes what she sees and wants to do more than just look at it.

I'm not even fit, but have a big booty and my gf is always slapping my ass when I walk by in a thong. Its fun actually, better than a girl being repulsed because I am in a thong or repuled by my butt lol.

As someone with a full ass and a wife that doesn't slap it very often, I would probably welcome the extra touching lol

Every woman that I have had an intimate or semi intimate relationship with has had the pleasure of grabbing, patting and squeezing my ass. I’ve had women I don’t know well do the same thing. They like the firm butt especially when framed by a thong. I don’t mind one bit. It’s fun, playful and enjoyable.

Each person is different. I would love to have my woman grab my ass! But only way to deal with is is honest conversations about how you feel.

I really appreciate everyone's input!

Honestly, you all have really helped me remember somethings (I always wanted) and come to some realizations.

I'm from the US, my lady is Asian but more familiar with UK mannerism.

I think the reason it's foreign to me is because it's not common for "me" .

Honestly, it's really not that big of an issue. I think I'm just not very comfortable with my physique (even though she loves it).

I've decided that I need to be grateful, accept it and learn to enjoying .

I mean, @buffalochip and @athongsnook would welcome it. I'm going to embrace it and make it more available.

I'm big into male bodybpositivity but also really critical of my physique (which is an active work in progress). I think this makes me abit shy even with my lady.

FYI: I'm a thicker guy but fit (175cm / 95kg). I regularly run 3 - 5K and enjoy the gym 3-5 days per week and I definitely don't lift "baby" weight; I push it with a 40-50 kg Dumbbell Bench Press to a 100-140kg Squat for sets and reps, amongst other exercises.

You are 100% correct @AZThonger . No, 100000% correct!

@Guitar T I'm going to look at as you do. Won't my girl be surprised .

mbit415 wrote: Tue Dec 17, 2024 2:31 pm I'm not even fit, but have a big booty and my gf is always slapping my ass when I walk by in a thong. Its fun actually, better than a girl being repulsed because I am in a thong or repuled by my butt lol.

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My wife and I will playfully pop each others butts when we are home - she will try to pinch at my butt, knowing I'm wearing a thong she can get to the flesh easier. Neither of us mind, but if it bothers you - I would say be honest and let her know you are okay with (fill in the blank) but please refrain from (fill in the blank). She should respect your wishes as you would do the same for her, for example she might not like you coming up behind her and grabbing her boobs - if she asked you to stop you would. respect goes both ways.