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I guess I’ll admit to what I didn’t want to give into.

I battled with the male versus female silhouette when it brings in the social labeling outlook on sexuality.

I started with a long story, I won’t waste repetitive cries for attention the way I see it now.since my first encounter with of Ck low rise hip briefs underwear. The first night I’ve slept hiding and hoping I wouldn’t be exposed from my blanket somehow falling out place and being walked in on.

So let’s just say since about 2018, skip past each style I tried to embrace and hide in. Time skipping. Now as I have grown immensely comfortable buying online or searching without the feel of negative judging eyes as if I am standing alone in the aisle as a straight man in the women’s section, browsing for something different to add to my collective drawer of privacy.
I will say to answer this question in retrospect; I am one for growing fond to buying the more feminine silhouette underwear.

I guess I can begin a bit of the background to understand:

• Being one without a male/father figure to guide and mold my outlook compared to one who grew up a woman lover but have outcasted interest. I never grew out of wanting, liking, and embracing the comfort for the what is called “man-panty” when it just comes to a young adolescent who wears briefs.

• Always antisocial not openly active to what I wanted in my attraction to hot petite lighter tone skin girls and slightly embarrassed from what I was aware to women wearing a similar style.ritual customs of how to live, when laundry came. I gained notice to how when clothes are to dry, not having full access to washer and dryer, clothing goes outside on a clothing line. Being exposed to a neighbor who could casually strol and not notice, being the only close related male, when psychological minds seek curiosity and can conclude judgment, I as the boy have to be the one who still hides the embarrassment. Wearing the cartoon assortment, colored briefs lined up with woman’s panties.

• I could go on to where I felt the shame and looked down on judgement and being a neighbor to girls I had around as playmates and future on. But I couldn’t get out of what felt right. Just with no one in comparison to not feel satisfied but alone.
  I did the fit in with the jones’ thing.

• Grew up to have to not depend on school shopping and experimented to join the crowd of what is preferred to see when getting older.
  Came across more of an exclusivity of brands but felt shame.

• So hiding and confronting with what I want and what I seek to be attracted in I finally immersed myself to what I found to enjoy being introverted as I am still to try men’s thongs,
  Overtime wanted more and to not drag on I found sites and received ad like mail on coed shopping leading to now wear, buying and owning a varied select few of enjoyable women’s thongs to give diversity to a large hidden collection.

Dontmakeitweird wrote: Thu Sep 14, 2023 10:57 am Do any straight men wear female panties? Or do any straight females find men in their panties attractive ?

Absolutely
Infact I only wear female thongs and panties
I don't own any male underwear anymore.
First of all like many of you I find melt underwear not only uncomfortable but also ugly. They're not sexy they don't make you look sexy. In my mind they're unappealing and I don't know why a woman or a man would like seeing someone in them. You're not flattering at al so yes I do wear female underwear they look better on me they hold my bulge in place and make me feel good everything about them is great for me I don't know why anybody would have a problem with them male or female. They're only underwear. Where would you like be proud of it don't hide it. https://photos.app.goo.gl/kB5SQTMcqzGyN1n29

Dontmakeitweird wrote: Thu Sep 14, 2023 10:57 am Do any straight men wear female panties? Or do any straight females find men in their panties attractive ?

I wear them frequently. Right now, I’m wearing a striped women’s thong. But for everyday use, I prefer men’s boxers. Women’s thongs don’t feel very comfortable to me—I just wear them because I love them. But I’d never dare to tell a woman that.

Welcome to the forum. Hope you enjoy the content.

new member here. straight guy who only wears panties. I just prefer the feel of nylon on my body. I was never really shy to begin with. Went through the whole no underwear phase in my twenties but my girlfriend finally put her foot down when I attempted to leave the house in thin powder blue sweats that hid nothing. I ended up giving in to her demand, and since I didn't own any undies, she made me pull on a pair of hers that day. I was immediately hooked by the feel of the nylon on my private area and agreed to wear them that day. By evening time, I was demanding we stop at Walmart to grab some more. I've worn panties every day since then. My girl has no problem with it, and even goes with me shopping for new ones. We make no secret of it at the department stores that the panties are for me. Have never had an issue with a sales associate. The majority of them bend over backwards to make sure I have the right size and style. It's panties all day long for me

Welcome to the forum.

Yes, I've been experimenting with women's thongs lately and have found some that I really like. Better support than men's and much more comfortable.
My favorites are Kindly Yours from Walmart.

Actually I bought some panties lately. Just because they stay invisible under light clothes in the summer. I've searched for something lightweight and no cotton in beige in men's range and there is literally nothing to choose from except HOM which are quite expensive and not available in my country and my size. So my wife told me that I should look for something in women's range that has a lot of options and no one will see that anyway.

It was quite tricky to find something which is comfortable and hold everything in place and stay invisible.
Maybe it's time for another forum category with reviews I spend a lot of time choosing the right one.

llama01 wrote: Tue Jun 24, 2025 6:15 am Actually I bought some panties lately. Just because they stay invisible under light clothes in the summer. I've searched for something lightweight and no cotton in beige in men's range and there is literally nothing to choose from except HOM which are quite expensive and not available in my country and my size. So my wife told me that I should look for something in women's range that has a lot of options and no one will see that anyway.

It was quite tricky to find something which is comfortable and hold everything in place and stay invisible.
Maybe it's time for another forum category with reviews I spend a lot of time choosing the right one.

I haven't tried it yet, but the Skims Fits Everybody thong looks like it has the perfect amount of fabric and stretch. https://skims.com/products/fits-everybody-thong-clay

Surprisingly, some of the Victorias secret v strings have good coverage and stretch too. I bring a bunch of them when traveling, keeps my pack real light.

mbit415 wrote: Tue Jun 24, 2025 9:47 pm I haven't tried it yet, but the Skims Fits Everybody thong looks like it has the perfect amount of fabric and stretch. https://skims.com/products/fits-everybody-thong-clay

Surprisingly, some of the Victorias secret v strings have good coverage and stretch too. I bring a bunch of them when traveling, keeps my pack real light.

I am not sure, the crotch looks a bit narrow. Seems to be very similar to Hilfiger thongs what I have and the package poking out a bit from the sides

Yes I also have couple of VS strings and they are very good. But I found out that Guess have some options and wider crotch makes them very comfortable for men, better then VS.
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The downside for me is lacy back, but finding something which wide enough and not lacy is even harder so can live with that.