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Aberman. Well done for taking the plunge in the pool this morning, it was nothing to worry about really !
I bet nobody looked twice at your swimwear , it’s no big deal.

I have this modus vivendi swim brief in three colours . Royal blue , bright red and a sky blue . When I bought them I thought the royal blue would be the most conservative , the red would be look at me and the sky blue probably the most daring . The sky blue is actually my favourite . Funnily enough In the blue light of the steam room it looks white which is quite striking !

Going away on another cruise with the Mrs.
I'd bought her some Victorias Secret boyshorts she wasn't crazy about, but you know what? They're a perfectly acceptable men's swim brief.
And one I'll be wearing soon out at the hot tubs!

For me, comfort level means what I find comfortable. So, Skinzwear g-strings are top for me, and as long as I am legal (i.e. not actually skinny dipping), then I'll swim in those. I'm not trying to impress anybody; nobody has the right to tell others what to wear.

It's already so hot here in Texas that makes me want to go to a pool more and rather wear speedos. I'm still a bit of a scared cat especially here in Texas when it comes to wearing them in public.

If I do go to the pool or beach, the longest I would wear are short shorts (not board shorts) and wear my bikini speedos underneath so I can take off my shorts when I feel comfortable in wearing them in public.

Maybe I can go to a spa with a pool? If I was in California or South Florida, I would be less afraid in wearing them.