That's pretty much the only way I would be comfortable in wearing a bikini speedo or thong in public, even if I don't talk to them. I just don't want to feel like the odd man out.kiyoothong wrote: Mon Feb 24, 2025 3:11 pm First time was at a nude beach in Vancouver, BC. I felt at ease because I wasn't the only person in a thong.
Second time was at a textile beach in Toronto. This time, I walked around to see if there were other thong wearers on the beach. There was one girl in a thong bodysuit, so I decided to set up next to her.
For those who still struggle to wear a swim thong in public, check out the scene and look for other thongers. There is always safety in numbers.
My first experience wearing a swim thong in front of people
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Yeah, I'm with you on that. As long as I'm not the only thonger..... I'd probably wear swim briefs as the odd man out, but not a thong.jason_greets wrote: Tue Feb 25, 2025 10:46 amThat's pretty much the only way I would be comfortable in wearing a bikini speedo or thong in public, even if I don't talk to them. I just don't want to feel like the odd man out.kiyoothong wrote: Mon Feb 24, 2025 3:11 pm First time was at a nude beach in Vancouver, BC. I felt at ease because I wasn't the only person in a thong.
Second time was at a textile beach in Toronto. This time, I walked around to see if there were other thong wearers on the beach. There was one girl in a thong bodysuit, so I decided to set up next to her.
For those who still struggle to wear a swim thong in public, check out the scene and look for other thongers. There is always safety in numbers.
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My first time wearing a thong at the beach was quite some time ago. I remember being nervous back then. Now days the only swim wear I own are thongs. The beginning of each season I know I will be the only man wearing a thong at my local beaches. Funny thing is, it was wearing a thong that attracted people to me. Now they are friends and we all spend the days together at the beach a few times a week. These days the only time I get anxious is when visiting a beach I haven’t been to before. I’ll check out the vibe before stripping down to my thong. At resorts and hotels I have less hesitation. Nonetheless, I know I will be the only man in a thong the vast majority of the time no matter where I am.
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What is it about resorts and hotels that makes you less hesitant?Guitar T wrote: Wed Feb 26, 2025 6:20 pm My first time wearing a thong at the beach was quite some time ago. I remember being nervous back then. Now days the only swim wear I own are thongs. The beginning of each season I know I will be the only man wearing a thong at my local beaches. Funny thing is, it was wearing a thong that attracted people to me. Now they are friends and we all spend the days together at the beach a few times a week. These days the only time I get anxious is when visiting a beach I haven’t been to before. I’ll check out the vibe before stripping down to my thong. At resorts and hotels I have less hesitation. Nonetheless, I know I will be the only man in a thong the vast majority of the time no matter where I am.
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Don't mind being the only man in a thong. In fact, I quite enjoy being the black sheep.
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I actually went to Haulover Beach (at the clothing optional area) yesterday and it was the only place so far where I felt comfortable wearing a thong. I was the only one with a thong. Of course, in that place I was actually overdressed. No, I didn't get nude. I wanted to get a speedo or thong tan.kiyoothong wrote: Thu Feb 27, 2025 5:36 am Don't mind being the only man in a thong. In fact, I quite enjoy being the black sheep.
There was an older man with a skimpy neon pink men's bikini with what I assume was his wife there. I wouldn't mind wearing something like that, but a different color like yellow or green.
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Unlike my Local beaches where there are pretty steady regulars that show up, a resort/hotel has people that come and go. As a result there seems to be much less judgement that occurs. Everyone knows they will be there for a short time. For me that means there is a more openness and willingness to let things be.thonger13 wrote: Wed Feb 26, 2025 10:16 pmWhat is it about resorts and hotels that makes you less hesitant?Guitar T wrote: Wed Feb 26, 2025 6:20 pm My first time wearing a thong at the beach was quite some time ago. I remember being nervous back then. Now days the only swim wear I own are thongs. The beginning of each season I know I will be the only man wearing a thong at my local beaches. Funny thing is, it was wearing a thong that attracted people to me. Now they are friends and we all spend the days together at the beach a few times a week. These days the only time I get anxious is when visiting a beach I haven’t been to before. I’ll check out the vibe before stripping down to my thong. At resorts and hotels I have less hesitation. Nonetheless, I know I will be the only man in a thong the vast majority of the time no matter where I am.
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I agree with this. So long as you aren’t at a hotel/resort in your hometown. If you are visiting somewhere else, you’ll likely never see any of those people again. I know for me, this is definitely what helped me to start wearing thongs and g-strings in public settings.Guitar T wrote: Thu Feb 27, 2025 10:26 amUnlike my Local beaches where there are pretty steady regulars that show up, a resort/hotel has people that come and go. As a result there seems to be much less judgement that occurs. Everyone knows they will be there for a short time. For me that means there is a more openness and willingness to let things be.thonger13 wrote: Wed Feb 26, 2025 10:16 pmWhat is it about resorts and hotels that makes you less hesitant?Guitar T wrote: Wed Feb 26, 2025 6:20 pm My first time wearing a thong at the beach was quite some time ago. I remember being nervous back then. Now days the only swim wear I own are thongs. The beginning of each season I know I will be the only man wearing a thong at my local beaches. Funny thing is, it was wearing a thong that attracted people to me. Now they are friends and we all spend the days together at the beach a few times a week. These days the only time I get anxious is when visiting a beach I haven’t been to before. I’ll check out the vibe before stripping down to my thong. At resorts and hotels I have less hesitation. Nonetheless, I know I will be the only man in a thong the vast majority of the time no matter where I am.
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Makes sense. Less chance of running into someone you knowGuitar T wrote: Thu Feb 27, 2025 10:26 amUnlike my Local beaches where there are pretty steady regulars that show up, a resort/hotel has people that come and go. As a result there seems to be much less judgement that occurs. Everyone knows they will be there for a short time. For me that means there is a more openness and willingness to let things be.thonger13 wrote: Wed Feb 26, 2025 10:16 pmWhat is it about resorts and hotels that makes you less hesitant?Guitar T wrote: Wed Feb 26, 2025 6:20 pm My first time wearing a thong at the beach was quite some time ago. I remember being nervous back then. Now days the only swim wear I own are thongs. The beginning of each season I know I will be the only man wearing a thong at my local beaches. Funny thing is, it was wearing a thong that attracted people to me. Now they are friends and we all spend the days together at the beach a few times a week. These days the only time I get anxious is when visiting a beach I haven’t been to before. I’ll check out the vibe before stripping down to my thong. At resorts and hotels I have less hesitation. Nonetheless, I know I will be the only man in a thong the vast majority of the time no matter where I am.
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I guess that also applies to beaches that aren't in your hometown too.AZThonger wrote: Thu Feb 27, 2025 6:35 pmI agree with this. So long as you aren’t at a hotel/resort in your hometown. If you are visiting somewhere else, you’ll likely never see any of those people again. I know for me, this is definitely what helped me to start wearing thongs and g-strings in public settings.Guitar T wrote: Thu Feb 27, 2025 10:26 amUnlike my Local beaches where there are pretty steady regulars that show up, a resort/hotel has people that come and go. As a result there seems to be much less judgement that occurs. Everyone knows they will be there for a short time. For me that means there is a more openness and willingness to let things be.thonger13 wrote: Wed Feb 26, 2025 10:16 pm
What is it about resorts and hotels that makes you less hesitant?