Married and straight and thonging alone at home

[mbit415]

Similar story with me. Its sexy as hell, but it was more out of practicality. I worked outdoors in a pretty labor intensive job and I would suffer from bad chaffing from briefs I was wearing, so I basically went and tried every type of underwear, boxers, trunks, then landed on string bikinis which helped more and then thongs which really helped alleviate the chaffing. That is the story that I have used, and all my gfs in the past were okay with it. I also never hid it from them and just pretended like it was normal lol. Some never even noticed the first few times in the bedroom lol.

[gstringkini]

Guess I'm lucky, my wife's cool with me wearing gsrings and thongs every day (mens or womens, doesn't matter). It took a bit for her to get used to it. I also feel sexy wearing them.

Women wearing gstrings = normal; men wearing them = not normal. I get tired of "sneaking around" and hiding my thonging from the world, worrying about whale tail, etc. Maybe several big male celebs that wear thongs could tell the world and we'll be on the way to mens thongs being normal.

Glad to have everyone here on the forum that "gets it".....

[Bthonger09]

Also lucky my wife likes that I wear thongs. She also is fascinated by how much I love wearing thongs.She always says I cant believe they are the only type of undies you wear, for me its just more comfortable. Its funny to compare our underwear drawers I only have thongs! When we first started dating she wore pretty much only thongs, im hoping she gets back into that vs just every now and then. I bought some matching meundies thongs so hopefully she likes them!

[JL Thong]

I’ve been happily married 25 years and only recently started wearing thongs after years of curiosity. I made the mistake of not talking to my wife about my curiosity and one day surprised her by undressing in front of her and displaying my my new thong. That sparked a whole conversation about why I wasn’t willing to talk about it first, why the interest in it, this seems a little out of character, etc. She felt it was a little strange and had a hard time adjusting to seeing me wear one. Not the result I hoped for.

Fast forward a little while and lots more conversation and more time have certainly improved matters. I do sometimes wear my thongs around the house when our kids aren’t home. She is warming up to the idea of seeing me in them. I do like that she will occasionally slide her hand under my pants when the kids aren’t in the room to touch my backside. She has also gradually accepted them as an object for foreplay. I have always enjoyed be touched through my underwear and the thinner fabric and minimal coverage of a thong takes the experience to a whole new level. We are making progress with her comfort level and acceptance and I have been able to transition to now wearing thongs exclusively. Happy with the progress but I would have approached it differently and much earlier if I could do it all over again. I think my wife would have responded more favorably.

Bonus - my wife had not been wearing thongs very often prior to my transition and I absolutely love seeing her in them. She looks amazing in one. There is no substitute. I’ve inspired a change in her as she has bought some new thongs recently and is wearing thongs very regularly. All the more reason I should have acted sooner!

[Microbikiniman]

Wonderful story, JL! Congratulations! I hope you and your wife will continue to make progress in your "Thong Travels" together!

[David_NC]

JL Thong congratulations on transitioning to full time thongs. I received similar backlash when I brought it up to my wife, but we were able to work past the questions and now full time thong. I still only get minimal time wearing just a thong around the house - but I enjoy the times I do get.

[kiyoothong]

Single guy here, and I hope to get married one day. I do not want to hide my thongs from my significant other, but at the same time, I want her to wear thongs too.

For the married folks out there, is it true that women shy away from thongs as they age? I hear stories about women avoiding thongs after becoming moms.

[JL Thong]

So many thoughts in response to your question about older married women. To start, I’ve been happily married to wife #1 for over 25 years. She still frequently wears thong and cheeky style underwear that highlight her beautiful shape. I’m as attracted to her now as I was years ago. That said, my wife’s interest in still being a sex kitten are a direct reflection of having a well rounded and healthy relationship in all dimensions of marriage. For me that means listening to her, prioritizing quality time with her, helping around the house, offering genuine praise, and being a good father and provider. If the relationship is deficient in those areas, the chances are much lower of having the physical dimension be all I would want it to be. We went through a rough patch right after having kids and my wife was not interested in wearing sexy things. Part of that was some negative body image but part of it was me not meeting her emotional needs. Time, more maturity, and more attention on her have improved things through the years. Our relationship is as fun and satisfying as ever and she does enjoy wearing sexy things for me. But without the investment in our relationship I’m sure that would not be the case. Don’t despair, a marriage can be a very good thing, especially in the physical dimension but it does take a lot of effort. Good luck finding the right woman for you. Good ones like mine are certainly out there looking for a good man!

[Microbikiniman]

JL, I loved your story! Best wishes to you and your wife for many happy, healthy and (yes!) sexy years together! You are setting a good example for all of us in establishing a truly lasting relationship between two committed partners (straight or gay).