Confessions of a Man in Panties

[ManInPanties]

Well, hello fellow underwear enthusiasts!

I don't really get to talk about this often, but... I'm a man and I wear panties every day! Whew, that's fun to type, so bear with me as I ride this train and blabber on far too long!

Ok, so I'm a gay man in my early thirties and I've been wearing women's panties for the last few years. I used to wear them occasionally for a little bit of fun, but it was my (now) husband who said it'd be hot if I started wearing them every day. It turns out my kink for wearing panties is almost as big as his kink for knowing I've got something frilly and lacy on underneath my chinos when we're out at dinner.

So now the briefs I used to wear are somewhere in a box tucked away in our crawlspace while my underwear drawer has filled with women's undies.

And sure, I've got some simple black and white ones that can pass without question as bikini briefs... and on days when I'm going to the gym at the office, these are the panties I pull on... but there's nothing I love more than being at work and knowing that my suit or corporate attire is hiding floral print... or lacy frills... or even a little bow!

So if you have any questions for a gay man who puts on panties every day... well, I'm more than excited to share!

[swimmer78]

Hi ManInPanties and a warm welcome to the forum! I've never been into womens panties but there are some othe guys on the forum who wear them regularly. I can however relate to the thrill of wearing "exciting" mens underwear under my chinos, especially thongs. Do you wear mostly bikini style panties or thongs? Also curious if your husband likes to wear sexy underwear sometimes? My wife doesn't share my love of thong underwear and I think in many straight marriages the woman doesn't like seeing her man in thongs or just barely tolerates it. My wife doesn't really mind or care about it. I am curious if this dynamic works differently in a gay marriage.

[ManInPanties]

Thank you both for the welcome!

I mostly wear bikini-cut panties that are about 1.5 or 2 inches wide on the sides. I certainly have some that are skimpier as well, but I generally try to avoid granny panties haha!

I also usually wear panties with a bit of stretch to accommodate my… well, you know… I like a gentle squeeze and snugness, but I’m not as fond of feeling squashed all day!

Thongs are the second most common underwear for me (which was true even before I started wearing panties) but I specifically wear men’s thongs. I mean, with underwear that skimpy, I need something made with my goods in mind, since I don’t really like the look or feel of spilling out of my underwear.

My husband wears nice underwear, and I find him sexy in them, but he doesn’t wear anything particularly outlandish. He usually wears designer briefs (typically black or navy) and occasionally wears boxer briefs. But he does always wear a thong under skinny jeans! But again, we’re talking a simple black or white Calvin Klein thong, so… the tamest of skimpy undies.

I don’t think the fact that he likes me wearing panties is super common amongst gay men. But neither he nor I are particularly masc or femme (we’re kinda both just tall geeks), and he enjoys the little hint of gender nonconformity from me!

[Microbikiniman]

As a fellow gay man and microwear enthusiast, I would also like to welcome you to the Forum. As you settle in and read the posts, you will find us a very diverse group! Do you and your husband also like to wear micro swimwear to the beach? (At a beach where microwear for both men and women is welcome, it's a real rush to saunter around in style!)

[ManInPanties]

My husband and I both have speedos! But nothing more micro than that. Well, actually, I do own a swim thong, but I never really wear it.

In terms of my speedos, I have two favorites:
1. A blue and white striped speedo from Budgy Smugglers that has a sort of old sailor vibe
2. A white speedo with koi on it, which can get a little dangerously transparent when it's wet

For that koi speedo, I've considered wearing my white swim thong underneath it since the speedo does get a little transparent... but it's already so low-rise that if I so much as just bend over... well, that's not the whale tail most beachgoers are looking for!

[Thonglover8k]

My husband and I both have speedos! But nothing more micro than that. Well, actually, I do own a swim thong, but I never really wear it.

In terms of my speedos, I have two favorites:
1. A blue and white striped speedo from Budgy Smugglers that has a sort of old sailor vibe
2. A white speedo with koi on it, which can get a little dangerously transparent when it's wet

For that koi speedo, I've considered wearing my white swim thong underneath it since the speedo does get a little transparent... but it's already so low-rise that if I so much as just bend over... well, that's not the whale tail most beachgoers are looking for!

Hi there welcome to the forum.
Like Bikiniman I wear micro bikinis to the beach, I’ve recently bought a Cocksox swim brief in white that is meant to become transparent when wet, I was a little disappointed in that it is only partially transparent. I also wear several swim thongs and occasionally G strings, so much fun and very freeing to be almost naked on the beach.

[rob123]

I have been wearing panties 24/7, last 7 years. I threw away all my men underwear. Best decision, I have ever made. The just feel and look better. I even wear to doctor. I have about 40 pair, mostly satin bikini. I really do not care what anyone thinks anymore. They are so comfortable.

[TANGA TANGA]

Welcome to the forum. Hopefully the content might encourage you to give men's underwear another chance.

[BikinisAlwaysShow]

50/50 panty wearer/men’s bikinis. Welcome to the forum. Hope you enjoy!

[BikinisAlwaysShow]

Well, hello fellow underwear enthusiasts!

I don't really get to talk about this often, but... I'm a man and I wear panties every day! Whew, that's fun to type, so bear with me as I ride this train and blabber on far too long!

Ok, so I'm a gay man in my early thirties and I've been wearing women's panties for the last few years. I used to wear them occasionally for a little bit of fun, but it was my (now) husband who said it'd be hot if I started wearing them every day. It turns out my kink for wearing panties is almost as big as his kink for knowing I've got something frilly and lacy on underneath my chinos when we're out at dinner.

So now the briefs I used to wear are somewhere in a box tucked away in our crawlspace while my underwear drawer has filled with women's undies.

And sure, I've got some simple black and white ones that can pass without question as bikini briefs... and on days when I'm going to the gym at the office, these are the panties I pull on... but there's nothing I love more than being at work and knowing that my suit or corporate attire is hiding floral print... or lacy frills... or even a little bow!

So if you have any questions for a gay man who puts on panties every day... well, I'm more than excited to share!

You should definitely post in the what are you wearing today thread. I’m sure we are all curious! Cheers!