Post and Partners

[Aberman]

I wondered whether this is a problem for many people ? Like me , you probably buy your swimwear etc from the internet . Hopefully you have a very supportive partner in your hobby . How do you feel about your partner getting to the post first and finding you have been buying more small swimwear or skimpy stuff ?
I’ve been in the situation where my partner was mildly tolerant of my foible but I always tried to get to the post first . Sometimes even intercepting the postman or trying to time the delivery for when she was occupied , not always successfully . My most embarrassing moment was when I ordered from alpha moda in Greece and the package had exotic stamps all over it “ your little knickers have arrived “ ! I could have been swallowed up . I tried to act nonchalant not immediately seizing them and rushing upstairs but it was embarrassing . Sadly I’m not in that situation any more but I wondered how you all felt about ordering and getting deliveries ?

[just mark]

Happily, my wife has always been cool with my thong and tanga briefs. She’s one of the women that actually likes this kind of underwear on men. I’m very lucky.

That said, she always refers to my underwear as
“ knickers” lol.
She sometimes has me wear her satin Tangas under shorts in the summer. ( now and again).

The only time I had a problem with postage was when I ordered some CK thongs from eBay, and accidentally clicked on my saved work address.

There were a few friendly jibes and giggles, nobody really cared though as my thongs have been seen a few times when I’m bending or lifting. I’m pretty careful about not showing, as I tend to wear low rise thongs at work.

[Aberman]

Happily, my wife has always been cool with my thong and tanga briefs. She’s one of the women that actually likes this kind of underwear on men. I’m very lucky.

That said, she always refers to my underwear as
“ knickers” lol.
She sometimes has me wear her satin Tangas under shorts in the summer. ( now and again).

The only time I had a problem with postage was when I ordered some CK thongs from eBay, and accidentally clicked on my saved work address.

There were a few friendly jibes and giggles, nobody really cared though as my thongs have been seen a few times when I’m bending or lifting. I’m pretty careful about not showing, as I tend to wear low rise thongs at work.

That’s a great story about getting the stuff accidentally sent to work . Of course click and collect is useful and Amazon lockers . I think it’s not the new product turning up which is a bit embarrassing but it’s more the evidence that one has been on the internet looking

[TANGA TANGA]

Not quite the situation that Aberman described, but I thought I'd share this anyway. Back in the days long before the internet when I was still sharing the family home with my mother and younger sister, I used to order lots of underwear from Kiniki without issue.Then one day I came home from work to discover that our dog had managed to get a hold of my latest delivery and had ripped the package open exposing the contents. From then on I decided to get my orders sent to a friend who I usually saw most weekends, although he wasn't exactly local.
I do remember being in a design studio in Edinburgh many, many years ago and seeing a familiar sized envelope that I recognized as being from Kiniki with the customer number on the outside. 99% certain it was one of their regular catalogues and I assumed the guy that it was addressed to didn't want his other half at home to see it, so he had it delivered to his workplace(which might also have been risky).

[Aberman]

Not quite the situation that Aberman described, but I thought I'd share this anyway. Back in the days long before the internet when I was still sharing the family home with my mother and younger sister, I used to order lots of underwear from Kiniki without issue.Then one day I came home from work to discover that our dog had managed to get a hold of my latest delivery and had ripped the package open exposing the contents. From then on I decided to get my orders sent to a friend who I usually saw most weekends, although he wasn't exactly local.
I do remember being in a design studio in Edinburgh many, many years ago and seeing a familiar sized envelope that I recognized as being from Kiniki with the customer number on the outside. 99% certain it was one of their regular catalogues and I assumed the guy that it was addressed to didn't want his other half at home to see it, so he had it delivered to his workplace(which might also have been risky).

Well I asked about partners but dogs is a hazard I hadn’t considered . For a while kiniki used to emblazon their packages with their name which wasn’t very bright . I think it is more discrete now . I’ll find out later as I have a delivery this pm !

[David_NC]

I'm also fortunate that my wife doesn't care if I wear thongs or skimpy undies. She only frowns on me buying more as she thinks I have too many. Currently my underwear drawer is 3 times the size of hers. But I do need to purge the old boxer briefs as they have not been worn in a few years. BUT, I do try to order items so I know they will arrive when I am able to get to the mailbox first. In my earlier years living with my parents, I actually had a PO Box to have items delivered so my parents were none the wiser - I'm sure the 60+ year old women there enjoyed looking through the Undergear magazines I used to get haha.

[Aberman]

I'm also fortunate that my wife doesn't care if I wear thongs or skimpy undies. She only frowns on me buying more as she thinks I have too many. Currently my underwear drawer is 3 times the size of hers. But I do need to purge the old boxer briefs as they have not been worn in a few years. BUT, I do try to order items so I know they will arrive when I am able to get to the mailbox first. In my earlier years living with my parents, I actually had a PO Box to have items delivered so my parents were none the wiser - I'm sure the 60+ year old women there enjoyed looking through the Undergear magazines I used to get haha.

Great reply , thanks , yes the catalogue was another cause of anxiety and how resourceful a P.O. Box . How I loved the old intersparta catalogue from Bristol

[normalguy-wildundies]

I'm also fortunate that my wife doesn't care if I wear thongs or skimpy undies. She only frowns on me buying more as she thinks I have too many. Currently my underwear drawer is 3 times the size of hers. But I do need to purge the old boxer briefs as they have not been worn in a few years. BUT, I do try to order items so I know they will arrive when I am able to get to the mailbox first. In my earlier years living with my parents, I actually had a PO Box to have items delivered so my parents were none the wiser - I'm sure the 60+ year old women there enjoyed looking through the Undergear magazines I used to get haha.

This is my situation too

My underwear collection doesn't do anything for my wife but she's fine with it. She just gets a little annoyed when another package shows up. In her defense I do have a fairly large collection but hey, you can never have too many pairs right?

[Aberman]

Yes , Normal , nice reply . I think this is probably quite a common situation for the straight male underwear lover . Partner will tolerate as essentially it is harmless but I think some women are a little afraid of even minor fetishes . Nice to know your situation is ok though .

[Pennbikini]

I'm not married...have been in a string of relationships over the years. I've not yet had any adverse comments or reactions to the underwear. Have gotten some funnier comments from time to time, like, "is it possible for your underwear to be any smaller?" Etc