Need an Opinion

[tony_sucks]

Whats up guys. Iv'e stated before in
different posts how I really enjoy wearing thongs and bikinis because i look pretty fucking awesome when i wear them. I'm no Brad Pitt, or the typical 6ft Muscle Beach guy, but I do consider myself to be a hot 5'6" 29 year old guy thats getting sexier every day. Since I was a kid, My goal has always been to look like the fit guys from the 90s who would see wearing bikinis and speedos at the beach, and the latino actors on the spanish-speaking channels who I would occasionally see wearing a bikini, etc., and I'm 90% closer to that image. Because of this goal, my underwear drawer has been filling up. Especially within the last two years. Recently, every purchase I've made has included about 3-5 pairs. so far, the biggest purchase was one of 15 pairs from one brand. I am really addicted to how I look and feel. It's the best feeling. Especially now that I'm about to reach my goal. This feeling is so intense, that I think almost everyday about wearing the next thong or bikini. This feeling is so deep, that within the next two-three months, I plan on making a purchase of about 55 pairs from the same website. I'm just waiting to save up enough money to be able to purchase all of them at once. I think in total I have about 200 pairs and its about to go up again. And these are just the thongs and bikinis that I like. I have a pile of the unwanted pairs that I didn't like after I saw that they did not look good on me (I dont want to throw them away but I probably should). I'm really excited when the time comes for me to buy that insane amount of thongs and bikinis. Is this crazy? Is it bad that I have a bad habit of spending so much money on thongs? Is it bad that I have to hide this side from my girlfriend who I know would freak out at the sight of my colossal stash of 200+ pairs? She probably wouldnt freak out if it were 2-5, pairs. In fact, she knows I have one grey and one black thong and she goes crazy for it. But 200!? For me its a grand prize. I'm always excited to workout because I get to wear my underwear (its the only time I ever wear them btw. I dont wear them to social events, work, etc..). Even if my plan is really crazy, I'm still gonna buy the 55 pairs. Has anyone gone as crazy as I have? tell me your story bro.

[ThongBum]

I may be the wrong person to ask. I’ve bought around 75 thongs in the past year and probably have around 150 total.

A few months ago I went through all my underwear and threw out anything that didn’t fit well, wasn’t comfortable, etc. I see no need to keep anything like that.

[TANGA TANGA]

Whats up guys. Iv'e stated before in
different posts how I really enjoy wearing thongs and bikinis because i look pretty fucking awesome when i wear them. I'm no Brad Pitt, or the typical 6ft Muscle Beach guy, but I do consider myself to be a hot 5'6" 29 year old guy thats getting sexier every day. Since I was a kid, My goal has always been to look like the fit guys from the 90s who would see wearing bikinis and speedos at the beach, and the latino actors on the spanish-speaking channels who I would occasionally see wearing a bikini, etc., and I'm 90% closer to that image. Because of this goal, my underwear drawer has been filling up. Especially within the last two years. Recently, every purchase I've made has included about 3-5 pairs. so far, the biggest purchase was one of 15 pairs from one brand. I am really addicted to how I look and feel. It's the best feeling. Especially now that I'm about to reach my goal. This feeling is so intense, that I think almost everyday about wearing the next thong or bikini. This feeling is so deep, that within the next two-three months, I plan on making a purchase of about 55 pairs from the same website. I'm just waiting to save up enough money to be able to purchase all of them at once. I think in total I have about 200 pairs and its about to go up again. And these are just the thongs and bikinis that I like. I have a pile of the unwanted pairs that I didn't like after I saw that they did not look good on me (I dont want to throw them away but I probably should). I'm really excited when the time comes for me to buy that insane amount of thongs and bikinis. Is this crazy? Is it bad that I have a bad habit of spending so much money on thongs? Is it bad that I have to hide this side from my girlfriend who I know would freak out at the sight of my colossal stash of 200+ pairs? She probably wouldnt freak out if it were 2-5, pairs. In fact, she knows I have one grey and one black thong and she goes crazy for it. But 200!? For me its a grand prize. I'm always excited to workout because I get to wear my underwear (its the only time I ever wear them btw. I dont wear them to social events, work, etc..). Even if my plan is really crazy, I'm still gonna buy the 55 pairs. Has anyone gone as crazy as I have? tell me your story bro.

Hard to know where to start, but here goes...........I get the whole addiction/obsession with buying skimpy undies, and on one occasion I bought 28 g-strings from the same seller in a short space of time(although I gifted 5-6 to a friend). The problem with having such an extensive collection is that it's almost impossible to give every item an outing and many will lie in drawers and rarely if ever see the light of day. I have 200+ of various styles spread over 5 or 6 drawers including some still unopened and bought years ago, but I tend to rotate the same dozen or so rather than delve into any of these drawers.
You describe yourself as a hot 29yrs who's getting sexier every day, so you're probably living the dream and not looking too far ahead, but I really do think you need to reconsider your intention to buy 55 pairs of underwear in one go. I'm guessing that amount would set you back anything between $500-$1,000 and you say you only wear them when you workout. How long will it take for you to save that kind of money and do other areas of your life suffer because of your underwear addiction? I'm not trying to be a killjoy and I know the excitement of trying on new underwear, but in these uncertain times when many are struggling to make ends meet, we can all do with a reality check.

[Guitar T]

I get the obsession, totally. I just purchased 2 dozen new thongs from a variety of manufacturers. I’m always looking for something unique, colorful or interesting. I easily have enough thongs to wear a different one every day for the next 2 + years. The good thing is this obsession is not harmful to any one and enjoyable for me and many of my friend that get to discover my new thongs when we hit the beach together.

I’d say there may be a problem if: 1. You are spending money you don’t have or putting you in financial difficulties by purchasing thongs/bikinis. 2. You feel you need to hide your desire and purchases, or feel guilt/shame/the need to hide. 3. Your obsession in some way significantly harms your life.

If your partner goes crazy seeing you’re wearing a thong, I say wear more. I have found that when I started wearing my more fun prints and designs I had wonderful reactions from my partner. She even joined in and purchased thongs she wanted me to wear.

[David_NC]

I completely agree with Guitar T, if you are going into financial hardship to purchase the thongs, feel you need to hide them from your girlfriend then I would reconsider purchasing 55 thongs at one time. For me, the most I have ever bought at one time was 9 from c-in2, I wanted to try one from each of their collections. Now I will admit I do sometimes hide my purchases from wife, but then slip them in slowly into the drawer - only because she thinks I have to many lol. I get the impression you are trying to lose weight, bulk up, or modify you appearance in some way. With that can come weight lose or gain which could swing the size you wear. My personal suggestion, instead of buying 55 thongs at one time - that you said you only wear when working out - I would buy 2, 3, 4, 5 at a time. This way you still get new undies, and can shop around and try different brands and styles - for example N2N comes out with new collections every few months and they are typically limited runs.
Also, if you only wear the thongs while you work out, go ahead and wear them more often - you'll find you like them more and more.

[CrossfiThong]

Wow, I am guessing that you are latino, because I am sure you understood all that Spanish from the telenovelas from Miami where the guys worn skimpy bikinis at the beach.

It is nothing wrong if you like to purchase a lot of thong multiple times, but the guys are right you should be careful about how this is impacting your finance, when you said that you are putting together some money to buy your stack of thongs and bikinis, that means that the amount of money you are planning to expend in this purchase is higher that your income, so, be smart and don't spend that much money that way.

Trust me, all of us would love to buy thongs every time I get a discount code or a promotion but it is not the case because, well, gotta be smart with money.

I will suggest you that you should focus that energy to start wearing your thongs and bikinis more often and don't let the tabus take you away of enjoying you taste of sexy underwear, and be sure to wear something different every day, not just only for working out. just do it.

And the other think I can suggest you, is that you should sell the thongs or bikinis you didn't like or you don't wear anymore, at least you will have a little reimbursement of those items you have stock in your drawer.
I will be willing to buy some from you lol.

[Microbikiniman]

Tony, the guys are making some very valid points in regards to your situation. I have some comments as well. First, please don't throw away perfectly-good underwear that didn't "click" for you. Put the money you spent to work on helping others in need by donating unused or gently-used underwear to Goodwill, the Salvation Army, a charity clothing drive or the like. You just might lift the spirits of men in need. (And, who knows, having more comfortable underwear that helps them have a better body image might help in their seeking to be more fit as they work to get back on their feet!) And, depending on the charity's setup, you might be offered the chance to take a tax deduction on the value of your donation. (And, yes, underwear is as much of an article of clothing as shirts, pants or socks!) Now, a question...why are you afraid to wear your microwear to social events, work or the like? The chances are good you WON'T be disrobing! How will anyone else know what you're wearing if you don't tell them? And how will you know what others are wearing under their clothes? (Lordy, you might be in "ThongTown" or "BikiniBay!") And I definitely agree with the others in watching expenses carefully. Purchase well-made microwear that "clicks" from its initial appearance, care for it, and replace only as needed. Considering the "vast holdings" noted by some of the guys, here's a question for you, Nate! How would you feel about the members posting about their "Clear-The -Drawer Specials" of never-worn or gently-used microwear here on the Forum? They could then PM each other, perhaps exchange pictures of the goods, and work out a deal! No waste of good microwear, and loving homes to boot!

[ManlyUndies]

Tony, I'm only going to say two things:

1. Stop hiding this from your gal. You said she goes nuts for your thongs, that's a good sign. Wear more thongs around her and eventually let her know that you enjoy wearing thongs. Don't make a big deal out of how many you have. I have many hundred pairs packed up in boxes, and many that I wear currently (daily), so it is not "weird" or anything. You need to not be ashamed that you like thongs. You need to be confident in wearing your thongs. Women love confidence and confident men wear thongs.

2. Why do you not wear thongs all the time? You have a nice collection. You should enjoy it. Go ahead and wear your thongs all the time and enjoy them! Many of us have significant collections, too. I love to wear my bikinis or thongs / g-strings all the time. Though I may be wearing basic jeans and a t-shirt on the outside, you can bet your ass I'm wearing some sexy undies! No one knows what you have on underneath, unless you share it with them. So just do it!

[David_NC]

I had another thought come through, what site are you buying 55 thongs from? I can only think of Internationaljock.com or the UNB store that carries dozens of different brands. While I’m sure both would love you to spend the $1,000 of dollars, I’d like to suggest to you to wait. And do it slowly, you have the opportunity to curate a wonderful collection over time of different styles, colors/patterns, brands. Sign up for different brands emails and you often get reward points or percentages off to stretch your dollar further. I admit I love JM so I have all 13 colors, if they come out with another I’d buy it, but I won’t buy any more JM this year. I have other brands I want to try. Unless you’ve had a major body transformation you wouldn’t buy 55 jeans or shorts at once, do the same for your undies.

[normalguy-wildundies]

You're among friends here! I've been wearing thongs for 20 years and have definitely been guilty of owning way too much underwear (if there is such a thing). I still get that rush of excitement when I order something new and it shows up on my door step. None of us are going to be able to tell you if ordering 50+ pairs at once is a good idea for you, financially or otherwise but I think it's worth reconsidering. There are a bunch of brands with all kinds of styles and colors. I'm not sure if you're like me but I love to try different brands to see how their undies look at feel. I wonder if by ordering so much at a single time you'll lose some of that excitement about getting some new pairs. What if you set your budget and ordered some new thongs every month from a variety of stores and you can spread that excitement across the whole year. Or maybe wait for Christmas/Black Friday specials and load up from a few different places. Ultimately you do what you want and makes you happy though!

As far as telling your girlfriend I was in a similar boat a few years back with my now wife. She didn't understand why I wanted to own and wear so many pairs of thongs and bikinis but she was ok with it. I think the key to letting her know is figuring out the right timing but also explaining why you like to have such a large collection. Everybody finds joy in their own way and she may not get why that's what you like but hopefully she'll be cool with it. I think it's important to show that you're responsible with your hobby though. If you're living without much margin and have thousands of dollars in thongs that might be more of a turn off than your actual drawer. Good luck and let us know if you end up getting that massive order!