Thong @ School
Thong @ School
Hi Everyone I’m being wearing a thongs which have been amazing and life changing. I only wear when at home or on weekends. I would love to be able to wear daily at school and wondered what y’all think. I do have PE so changing is something that I have to do but I really want to wear them. Should I ask PE coach what he think? Maybe show him to get his opinion also. Many of my classmates I know very well but majority from what I see wear boxers , boxers briefs, or trunk underwear. Any help would be appreciated or how u could go about asking coach?
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TANGA TANGA
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Good to hear that finally getting to wear thongs has been life changing for you and I can understand why you would want to wear them to school. Having said that, I don't think you should ask your PE coach what he thinks, nor should you show him. Moreso now than ever before, teachers and other adults who work with children and teenagers have to be very careful about how they interact with those they are responsible for. I would imagine that PE coaches are strongly advised not to linger in the locker room when their pupils are changing or showering, but depending on the nature of your sport and the kit you have to wear, it might be obvious to your coach and anyone else who sees you, that you are wearing a thong. By all means wear your thong, and if, as is likely, any of your teammates or even your coach makes a comment, just be calm and say you find them more comfortable than the alternatives for your particular sport. Hopefully that will be sufficient to avoid any confrontation or embarrassment. Let us know how you get on.Miguel05 wrote: Fri May 12, 2023 1:36 am Hi Everyone I’m being wearing a thongs which have been amazing and life changing. I only wear when at home or on weekends. I would love to be able to wear daily at school and wondered what y’all think. I do have PE so changing is something that I have to do but I really want to wear them. Should I ask PE coach what he think? Maybe show him to get his opinion also. Many of my classmates I know very well but majority from what I see wear boxers , boxers briefs, or trunk underwear. Any help would be appreciated or how u could go about asking coach?
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Microbikiniman
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Miguel, let me add my congratulations! I agree with what TangaTanga said, and it sounds like it is time to take that next step of courage and wear your thong regularly! Remember, if the other guys are really TRUE friends, they will not purposefully belittle or embarrass you. Who know, if you are projecting an appearance of self-confidence and self-assurance, some of the other guys may decide that they might like to try thongs, too! (Or perhaps men's bikinis, or maybe something cut like a Speedo.) Sometimes it just takes one person to have the bravery to "get things rolling," so continue "stepping forward" in what is fulfilling for YOU in your life's journey! And, yes, keep us posted!
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TANGA TANGA wrote: Fri May 12, 2023 3:25 amGood to hear that finally getting to wear thongs has been life changing for you and I can understand why you would want to wear them to school. Having said that, I don't think you should ask your PE coach what he thinks, nor should you show him. Moreso now than ever before, teachers and other adults who work with children and teenagers have to be very careful about how they interact with those they are responsible for. I would imagine that PE coaches are strongly advised not to linger in the locker room when their pupils are changing or showering, but depending on the nature of your sport and the kit you have to wear, it might be obvious to your coach and anyone else who sees you, that you are wearing a thong. By all means wear your thong, and if, as is likely, any of your teammates or even your coach makes a comment, just be calm and say you find them more comfortable than the alternatives for your particular sport. Hopefully that will be sufficient to avoid any confrontation or embarrassment. Let us know how you get on.Miguel05 wrote: Fri May 12, 2023 1:36 am Hi Everyone I’m being wearing a thongs which have been amazing and life changing. I only wear when at home or on weekends. I would love to be able to wear daily at school and wondered what y’all think. I do have PE so changing is something that I have to do but I really want to wear them. Should I ask PE coach what he think? Maybe show him to get his opinion also. Many of my classmates I know very well but majority from what I see wear boxers , boxers briefs, or trunk underwear. Any help would be appreciated or how u could go about asking coach?
Hi Tanga Tanga I didnt think about that good point. I figured I would ask coach so it’s not surprise if I had one on but now that you say that I see what you mean like just wear and treat as normal underwear. Plus i wouldn’t want to get anyone in trouble either.
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Hi microbikiniman thank you and yeah I see what y’all both mean. I have also thought about getting a close friend of mine opinions about wearing them at school he doesn’t know yet but would like to show him and see what he thinks. In a way get his reaction and what he thinks about wearing to PE or school.Microbikiniman wrote: Fri May 12, 2023 9:57 am Miguel, let me add my congratulations! I agree with what TangaTanga said, and it sounds like it is time to take that next step of courage and wear your thong regularly! Remember, if the other guys are really TRUE friends, they will not purposefully belittle or embarrass you. Who know, if you are projecting an appearance of self-confidence and self-assurance, some of the other guys may decide that they might like to try thongs, too! (Or perhaps men's bikinis, or maybe something cut like a Speedo.) Sometimes it just takes one person to have the bravery to "get things rolling," so continue "stepping forward" in what is fulfilling for YOU in your life's journey! And, yes, keep us posted!
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Microbikiniman
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Miguel, I think asking your friend's opinion is a good one. As I'm sure you've already found out on your life's journey so far, reasonable discussions with other people about various subjects help anyone develop more confidence and self-assurance. It gives you a chance to express yourself clearly and make your point. The more you do it, the easier it becomes! Go for it! 
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I see what you mean. I may ask him and get his opinion and go from there idk when should bring it up or show him hopefully when I can find right time when no one around but I will let you know who it goes if y’all want. Thank u for help
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my only suggestion/worry: even a guy who is your closest best friend may be grossed out and freaked out (toxic masculinity is horrible in modern society) if they connect thongs with homosexuality they may think are homoexual and cut off your friendship thinking you may have attractions towards them etc.Miguel05 wrote: Sat May 13, 2023 12:14 pm I see what you mean. I may ask him and get his opinion and go from there idk when should bring it up or show him hopefully when I can find right time when no one around but I will let you know who it goes if y’all want. Thank u for help
I'm not saying being gay is bad but wjen I was a teen in the 2000s, for a teenage boy you are CONSTANTLY worried what others think of you, want to be popular and gay is seen as bad. and the notion that ALL gay guys have attractions towards all males is hilarious/untrue just like all straight people arent attracted to every straight person....
that's my two cents but be cautious/wary.
good luck!!
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No I totally understand and is something I thought about too. I thought about dropping hints and seeing how he reacts first but not surefbbnate wrote: Sat May 13, 2023 1:11 pmmy only suggestion/worry: even a guy who is your closest best friend may be grossed out and freaked out (toxic masculinity is horrible in modern society) if they connect thongs with homosexuality they may think are homoexual and cut off your friendship thinking you may have attractions towards them etc.Miguel05 wrote: Sat May 13, 2023 12:14 pm I see what you mean. I may ask him and get his opinion and go from there idk when should bring it up or show him hopefully when I can find right time when no one around but I will let you know who it goes if y’all want. Thank u for help
I'm not saying being gay is bad but wjen I was a teen in the 2000s, for a teenage boy you are CONSTANTLY worried what others think of you, want to be popular and gay is seen as bad. and the notion that ALL gay guys have attractions towards all males is hilarious/untrue just like all straight people arent attracted to every straight person....
that's my two cents but be cautious/wary.
good luck!!
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JustSomeDude71
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Congrats on finally getting to wear what you want to and breaking away from the boring and mundane world of boxer briefs and huge, baggy Y-fronts! That being said, I strongly suggest keeping your underwear to yourself, at least until you get out of high school. And I certainly wouldn't open up to your PE Teacher about it, I know you are excited about your new underwear and just want to tell the whole world- I remember being like that at your age. I wanted every boy in school to try my underwear and see how awesome it was to wear something so comfortable, liberating, light, fun, and sexy... but these are teenage boys, and teenage boys are not well-known for their empathy, candor or kindness! Most likely what will happen, is that you will be mocked and ridiculed as gay, or sissy- and by the end of the day everyone at school will know about your underwear! Teenage boys aren't known for being understanding, discreet or nice about such things as another boy wearing thongs. I know you're busting to tell the world right now, but don't.
In the meantime, I suggest that you try to express your new-found freedom elsewhere: public beaches, community pools, etc. But not with a thong, you may get in trouble with upset and angry parents who may get the police involved, especially if there are young children around. I would get a nice bikini-cut swim brief, I suggest Kiniki, they have a wide range of styles and colors to choose from. Good luck and congratulations
In the meantime, I suggest that you try to express your new-found freedom elsewhere: public beaches, community pools, etc. But not with a thong, you may get in trouble with upset and angry parents who may get the police involved, especially if there are young children around. I would get a nice bikini-cut swim brief, I suggest Kiniki, they have a wide range of styles and colors to choose from. Good luck and congratulations
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