Does the size of your manhood deter you from wearing skimpy swimwear?

[TANGA TANGA]

I thought I would raise this issue(no pun intended) after reading some recent comments from guys on the main blog. One guy mentioned that his wife had quipped that his manhood was so big it was embarrassing for her when he wore a bikini, to which he added that wouldn't it be more embarrassing if it was too small? Now I don't want this discussion to be open season for well endowed guys to hit us with the dimensions of their manhood, or for more modestly proportioned guys to feel they can't join in with the discussion. We know that there are ways of concealing our packages by careful choice of colours and designs which is something that was touched upon on the VPL topic some time ago. Also, depending on which position we adopt, be it up, down or to the side, it can go some way to lessening what we show. There are lots of hung guys on social media who wear styles that favour the down position and leave nothing to the imagination, but there are also lots of guys who are pictured in speedos who retain an element of mystery by avoiding certain colours and going with jazzy designs.
This blog was created to encourage guys of all body shapes and sizes to ditch their boxers and board shorts for skimpier styles, but perhaps it should also state that the size of a guy's manhood should not deter him from enjoying the delights of wearing a bikini, thong or whatever. After all, if women of all breast sizes can wear bikini tops that either conceal everything or barely cover what's within, then surely men can do the same with their skimpy bikinis?

[tbdrawer]

I never really thought much about size until I really started blogging and paying attention to social media. It seems if you are well endowed then you either can sign up to be an underwear/swimwear model or you're more likely to post selfies. As I mentioned on the blog I don't consider myself packing in that category especially so in the flaccid state. Sometimes it seems even more so in swim bikini brief. Now my trouble breaking out the swim brief wasn't due to my package size. It was breaking the norm and being the only guy in one at the beach. Maybe if I was packing it then it would deter me, since then I might feel like that people would think the only reason I'm wearing one is to show off. As I've said many times on the blog, my goal is to do my best to represent a swim bikini brief in a positive way whenever I wear them.

[TANGA TANGA]

I never really thought much about size until I really started blogging and paying attention to social media. It seems if you are well endowed then you either can sign up to be an underwear/swimwear model or you're more likely to post selfies. As I mentioned on the blog I don't consider myself packing in that category especially so in the flaccid state. Sometimes it seems even more so in swim bikini brief. Now my trouble breaking out the swim brief wasn't due to my package size. It was breaking the norm and being the only guy in one at the beach. Maybe if I was packing it then it would deter me, since then I might feel like that people would think the only reason I'm wearing one is to show off. As I've said many times on the blog, my goal is to do my best to represent a swim bikini brief in a positive way whenever I wear them.

Hi Nate. I know your issues about wearing a swim brief had nothing to do with anxiety about your manhood, although I'm sure you'll understand that that CAN be a stumbling block for some. You make an interesting point that if you were particularly blessed in that area, you might be put off from wearing a skimpy suit in case people thought you were doing so purely to show off. Almost a case of you're darned if you do, and darned if you don't! To answer that, I would turn once again to the double standards between a man and a woman. If a woman is blessed with an impressive cleavage, should she be put off from wearing a skimpy bikini top? Obviously not! So if a man happens to be well endowed, why shouldn't he enjoy wearing a swim brief? I think only jealous onlookers would accuse him of showing off.
One of the followers recently mentioned a guy on social media who was very well endowed and got some negative comments for wearing bikinis and thongs. I sent him some positive comments particularly about his courage in wearing a thong in a group of his friends who were all dressed in dork shorts. It soon became clear that he quite understandably enjoyed the attention that his large manhood attracted, but then he posted a video in which he acted out the reaction he gets whenever someone talks to him while he is wearing a speedo. Basically their eyes look down at his crotch instead of maintaining eye contact. I ended up thinking you can't have it both ways. If you flaunt it, don't complain if people react! You might think I'm being harsh, but in several pics, depending on the positioning of his manhood, it wasn't quite so obvious that he was packing, whereas in the down position it was "hey! look at me!" I think he was the perfect example of the imaginary guy you described(lol).

[tbdrawer]

I never really thought much about size until I really started blogging and paying attention to social media. It seems if you are well endowed then you either can sign up to be an underwear/swimwear model or you're more likely to post selfies. As I mentioned on the blog I don't consider myself packing in that category especially so in the flaccid state. Sometimes it seems even more so in swim bikini brief. Now my trouble breaking out the swim brief wasn't due to my package size. It was breaking the norm and being the only guy in one at the beach. Maybe if I was packing it then it would deter me, since then I might feel like that people would think the only reason I'm wearing one is to show off. As I've said many times on the blog, my goal is to do my best to represent a swim bikini brief in a positive way whenever I wear them.

Hi Nate. I know your issues about wearing a swim brief had nothing to do with anxiety about your manhood, although I'm sure you'll understand that that CAN be a stumbling block for some. You make an interesting point that if you were particularly blessed in that area, you might be put off from wearing a skimpy suit in case people thought you were doing so purely to show off. Almost a case of you're darned if you do, and darned if you don't! To answer that, I would turn once again to the double standards between a man and a woman. If a woman is blessed with an impressive cleavage, should she be put off from wearing a skimpy bikini top? Obviously not! So if a man happens to be well endowed, why shouldn't he enjoy wearing a swim brief? I think only jealous onlookers would accuse him of showing off.
One of the followers recently mentioned a guy on social media who was very well endowed and got some negative comments for wearing bikinis and thongs. I sent him some positive comments particularly about his courage in wearing a thong in a group of his friends who were all dressed in dork shorts. It soon became clear that he quite understandably enjoyed the attention that his large manhood attracted, but then he posted a video in which he acted out the reaction he gets whenever someone talks to him while he is wearing a speedo. Basically their eyes look down at his crotch instead of maintaining eye contact. I ended up thinking you can't have it both ways. If you flaunt it, don't complain if people react! You might think I'm being harsh, but in several pics, depending on the positioning of his manhood, it wasn't quite so obvious that he was packing, whereas in the down position it was "hey! look at me!" I think he was the perfect example of the imaginary guy you described(lol).

Yep, I agree that one's size could add to one's anxiety of wearing a swim brief. I think that may be an issue women can have with their breast size too. Of course it appears to be more acceptable for women to show what they have from top to bottom making it easier. So is a woman's femininity defined by their breast size? How about a man's masculinity? Is it by his package size? I suppose some think it does, but of course it doesn't.

I've seen many postings on social media (pretty sure including the one you are talking about) that their suit choice makes it appear their motive is to show off what they got. If that is their intent then they shouldn't complain about the attention that is drawn to them. I mean we are already drawing attention breaking away from the norm of board shorts and trunks in just wearing a form fitting suit.

[DownUnder]

I wouldn't say it does for me. The style of swimwear (which bear in mind for me were Speedos and now a Kiniki swim tanga) which I wear is more for comfort and reasonably minimal fabric. The bits in question are also not one size but can vary within a range depending on certain factors, and the natural stretch of the fabric accommodates that comfortably. My swimming is now all private pool rather beach or public pool, although there can be other people at these pool events, but I still don't go for really tiny swimwear. We have had others on here who boast about being exhibitionists, so perhaps for them this issue of package size has more importance.

[ManlyUndies]

As an exhibitionist, what you see is not always what you will get. Personally, I certainly qualify more as a "grower" than a "show-er".

However, depending on how much I want to show off, I may do different things. There are some suits I have which, just by the nature of how they hold the equipment, will make the package look far more impressive than it looks in a basic flat front heavy Speedo swim brief. Plus, if I'm really feeling like I want to show off, I may do other things like wear cock rings or use a pump to increase the appearance of my equipment. So remember, what you see may not be exactly what is actually there. Heck, there are even inserts that some companies have for their suits to hide your equipment and make it look completely different. For example: Andrew Christian Shock Jock Active Shaping Tech w/ Male Features.

I don't always show off, in fact doing so is highly dependent on the environment. Often I'll not be showing off in most situations.

[JustSomeDude71]

Not something I really considered. But in regards to swimwear, you can get padded inserts that add a little bit of a boost in the front! I have heard that some men wear a hard cup in their swim bikinis to keep a consistent size... because you know what cold water does to mini-me, right?!

[JustSomeDude71]

I thought I would raise this issue(no pun intended) after reading some recent comments from guys on the main blog. One guy mentioned that his wife had quipped that his manhood was so big it was embarrassing for her when he wore a bikini, to which he added that wouldn't it be more embarrassing if it was too small? Now I don't want this discussion to be open season for well endowed guys to hit us with the dimensions of their manhood, or for more modestly proportioned guys to feel they can't join in with the discussion. We know that there are ways of concealing our packages by careful choice of colours and designs which is something that was touched upon on the VPL topic some time ago. Also, depending on which position we adopt, be it up, down or to the side, it can go some way to lessening what we show. There are lots of hung guys on social media who wear styles that favour the down position and leave nothing to the imagination, but there are also lots of guys who are pictured in speedos who retain an element of mystery by avoiding certain colours and going with jazzy designs.
This blog was created to encourage guys of all body shapes and sizes to ditch their boxers and board shorts for skimpier styles, but perhaps it should also state that the size of a guy's manhood should not deter him from enjoying the delights of wearing a bikini, thong or whatever. After all, if women of all breast sizes can wear bikini tops that either conceal everything or barely cover what's within, then surely men can do the same with their skimpy bikinis?

Ahh, but there is one huge difference regarding men Vs women when discussing breast size Vs penis size in revealing swimwear. Women get the privilege of fat acceptance, so no matter how big their breast size, or mid-section is, it is consider bad taste and rudeness to tease or criticize a woman if her swimsuit can barely contain her body.
Men, however, do not get to enjoy this privilege. If you’re a big man like me, just you dare step onto a public beach or pool, being overweight and wearing a swim bikini or a thong… you will be shown no quarter and no mercy! As for being well-endowed… men who are quite large down under must risk the same slings and arrows… either from their significant other or from strangers who think you are going to traumatize little girls and old grannies by trying to stuff your long schlong into a little, low-cut swim bikini or thong. I would suggest wearing your skimpy swimwear, but under some swim trunks until you can accurately gauge the situation to see if you can dare to go more risqué and remove your outer swim trunks.

[Guitar T]

All I wear to the beach or pool is a swim thong or bikini style suit. I find that I have problems with flat front suit and need a more defined pouch for both comfort and a better profile. If not I’m either smashed in and uncomfortable or falling out in ways I prefer not to. I find that the real issue revolves around if you’re trying to show off or attract attention to a specific body part or if you are simply hanging out with friends having fun. While some people will take note of what’s below the belt line most people seem to simply pass on by. My friends will sometimes make a passing comment, but most of the time it is not a subject. As a result I feel confident and secure in my tiny swimwear and never think of wearing something that covers more or shows less. The key is finding the best fitting and best style suit for your body.

[Bikenswim]

I am a "grower" but I always enjoyed the squeeze of a flat-front suit. The tiny Asian suits from AQUX, Mategear, and some Arena Japan suits float my boat. I even wear BBlair men's slingshot gaff thongs, that dip very low in front and are a bit feminizing. https://lexybblair.com/
Koala has many crossover styles, too. Actually while people may stare or comment on massive bulges, I am just "invisible" in my tiny suits and can roam freely around any crowded beach.