Thongs and sex life

[MarriedGuy1024]

How has wearing thongs affected your sex life? I’ve started wearing them full time but my wife is lukewarm. Should I expect this to negatively affect things in the bedroom? What has been your experience?

[JustSomeDude71]

I'll never understand women's hang-ups about men's underwear. Maybe she's jealous that you look better in thongs than she does. If it's going to be an issue in the bedroom, you may want to consider wearing something else when you and your wife come together for love making, because if it's going to put the fire out in her, then it's going to be a cold night for the both of you!

[TANGA TANGA]

How has wearing thongs affected your sex life? I’ve started wearing them full time but my wife is lukewarm. Should I expect this to negatively affect things in the bedroom? What has been your experience?

They do say that one sign that your partner might be having an affair is if they suddenly change their usual style of underwear. I'm not suggesting that is the case with you,but is it possible that you starting to wear sexy thongs full time is quite a change from what you used to wear? If you were a boxers or boxer briefs type of guy,then it is quite a jump to thongs. Maybe your wife believes that old stereotype about thongs being for women only or guys who are not sexually attracted to women? If she is genuinely lukewarm about you wearing thongs and it is having a negative effect in the bedroom,then you have to talk to her about it and convince her that you are the same guy she married whatever underwear you choose to wear.

[David_NC]

I can honestly say that adding thongs back to regular wear hasn’t affected our sex life. I agree with Tanga if you were a boxers guy and switched cold turkey to thongs with no indication of your desire to wear skimpy undies then your wife may be concerned that the underwear was for other reasons. Truth be told sexy underwear should have improved your sex life. Perhaps it’s time to chat with her.

[MarriedGuy1024]

I’m not saying it’s changed it at all. She’s lukewarm to the idea of me wearing thongs. It is a change since we’ve been together but I told her my desire to wear them before doing so. I just wondered if it helped or hurt anyone’s sex life.

BTW they’re so freaking comfortable I’ll never go back.

[TANGA TANGA]

If your wife wears thongs, then I don't see why she can object to you doing the same. If,on the other hand,she prefers more conservative undies.it would go some way to explaining her reluctance to accept her husband in his butt revealing skimpies. While I commend you for discussing it with your wife rather than just springing it on her,I think the fact that you felt the need to tell her beforehand suggests you might have already suspected that her reaction would be less than positive. Would you have done the same if you were planning on changing your brand of aftershave or antiperspirant? Probably not.
Like David NC mentioned in his reply, I would have thought sexy underwear would help spice up your sex life. When you see how women react at a hen night when the stripper finally reveals his thonged butt,that tells you all you need to know about the effect that a man in sexy underwear can have on the gentler sex. Seeing their other half take down their trousers at bedtime to be confronted by baggy boxer shorts or washed out grey long legged trunks surely doesn't match up to a sexy thong?
In closing,it was good to read your closing remark about never going back to your old styles on account of how darn comfortable your thongs are!

[JustSomeDude71]

I’m not saying it’s changed it at all. She’s lukewarm to the idea of me wearing thongs. It is a change since we’ve been together but I told her my desire to wear them before doing so. I just wondered if it helped or hurt anyone’s sex life.

BTW they’re so freaking comfortable I’ll never go back.

What is your favorite brand and can you provide a shopping link so the rest of us can check them out?

[CrossfiThong]

Maybe your wife is feeling little overwhelmed because the spontaneous switch plus men wearing thong always are marked as a weirdos ().
My suggestion is asked her what’s wrong?, listen and after explain her this is your choice of underwear, there is nothing wrong about it, only it is not that common and it’s your way how you express your sexuality, explain her everyone deserves express their sexuality on their own way because everyone is different. It’s going to take little bit to her wrap her head around it but if during sex make this experience about her all the time with you wearing thong, she is going to relate it as a positive experience.
Good luck and not everyone is going to understanding us at first, but with patient and communication thongs are going to get more public and normalized.

[outside_time]

My wife likes that I wear them. She likes my butt. What can I say? There are plenty of other things that might mess with your sex life, but so far, wearing thongs wasn't that for me. All good.

[RthongR]

+1 to what outside said.