Genuine compliment or pro social teasing
Genuine compliment or pro social teasing
I see so many posts here of people being put down by their underwear choice. For our bikini brief and colored brief wearers Am I the only one here that has gotten a genuine compliment or playful positive teasing of "nice underwear" and "they look good" or something similar like that?
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You are not the only person that has gotten honest enjoyment from others for the choice of underwear and/or swimwear. Everyone that I have been in more intimate contact with has genuinely enjoyed my “sexy” underwear. Ive been asked what other sexy undies do I have, with big smiles, excitement and pleasure. I’ve been asked to wear special pieces because they made her hot seeing me in the thong or bikini (although I have very few bikini underwear). I have never had a neutral or negative reaction from an intimate partner when it comes to my underwear choice.
I have friends that will ask me to wear a particular thong to the beach and make comments about my new thongs that are extremely positive. I have had a few women tell me that what drew them to me was my ability to wear a thong with confidence, joy and comfort.
I have friends that will ask me to wear a particular thong to the beach and make comments about my new thongs that are extremely positive. I have had a few women tell me that what drew them to me was my ability to wear a thong with confidence, joy and comfort.
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Thonglover8k
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Re: Genuine compliment or pro social teasing
I’ve had quite a few compliments about my thongs and g-strings that I wear to the beach, so not that unusual.
It always feels good to get complimented.
It always feels good to get complimented.
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Pennbikini
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I consistently get compliments. No worries from me...I'll get a playful tease every now and then too, but that's also not a bad thing! I think the only outright teasing was back in high school, and then even that didn't last too long. Just a remark every now and then, although the creepy janitor was an annoyance.
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bikiniguy1971
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Re: Genuine compliment or pro social teasing
’ve gotten a few nice Speedo compliments from fellow swimmers at my pool, which is always a good feeling. But my favorite one happened totally out of the blue.
A couple years ago I was traveling and staying at a very standard, off-the-interstate Hampton Inn. I never travel without a Speedo in my bag, so even though the hotel didn’t have a pool, it did have a sunny deck with a few chairs. That was good enough for me.
I threw on my suit, grabbed a towel, and laid out for a bit, soaking up the mountain sun. Most of the other guests were there to hike or cycle, and I figured I was pretty much on my own. Apparently not.
Out of nowhere, a totally normal, friendly guy walked by, smiled, and said something like, “You’re looking great—nice suit.”
Simple, unexpected, and a total confidence boost. Compliments like that stick with you.
A couple years ago I was traveling and staying at a very standard, off-the-interstate Hampton Inn. I never travel without a Speedo in my bag, so even though the hotel didn’t have a pool, it did have a sunny deck with a few chairs. That was good enough for me.
I threw on my suit, grabbed a towel, and laid out for a bit, soaking up the mountain sun. Most of the other guests were there to hike or cycle, and I figured I was pretty much on my own. Apparently not.
Out of nowhere, a totally normal, friendly guy walked by, smiled, and said something like, “You’re looking great—nice suit.”
Simple, unexpected, and a total confidence boost. Compliments like that stick with you.
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I only can report the many feedbacks about my beach thongs, having no many occasions to show underwear styles.
I received compliments, irony and negatives.
Men in thongs are extremely rare here but somehow women like it, especially 40-50 years old are more interested in showing their approval
I received compliments, irony and negatives.
Men in thongs are extremely rare here but somehow women like it, especially 40-50 years old are more interested in showing their approval