Breaking the Norm

[ralange]

I also wonder why we don't have more forum members posting pictures or links to pictures of them in their suits?

[TANGA TANGA]

I also wonder why we don't have more forum members posting pictures or links to pictures of them in their suits?

They've probably seen your hot pics and decided to keep their clothes on(lol).

[schwammy]

Just this year, actually. Got a couple of skimpy suits from Cocksox and started wearing one when my girlfriend and I would go visit our friends and use their hot tub. Then just this week got brave enough to wear one to the beach.

[CrossfiThong]

Just this year, actually. Got a couple of skimpy suits from Cocksox and started wearing one when my girlfriend and I would go visit our friends and use their hot tub. Then just this week got brave enough to wear one to the beach.

Did you friends say something about your skimpy swimwear?
How did you feel at the beach wearing them?
Hi and welcome to the group!

[schwammy]

Thanks!

No, neither my girlfriend's American friend nor her British-born husband said a thing. They had invited us to come over any evening to use their hot tub. The idea was that it was supposed to be like an inexpensive date night. But whether she was hungry for company after months of lockdown or just wanted to ogle me, what ended up happening was that she parked herself poolside and talked with us for over an hour. My girlfriend has accepted my bikini exhibitionism and enjoys showing me off.

How did I feel at the beach? Exposed, but in a good way. I'm still self-conscious. It's ridiculous how conditioned we've all become. Back in December we were skiing in Colorado, and an Australian guy wore a Speedo in our hotel hot tub and strutted around like he owned the place. Very confident, he.

[outside_time]

I was about 8 or 9, joined the swim team at the local pool, the team suit was a red Speedo. It was Speedos exclusively from then on until something briefer came along.

[ralange]

So I was going to go to the hotel pool at 10:30pm in my black thong, which I have wore serveral times at this hotel. But I seen some younger people early 20's or so going in and I got cold feet. I went and changed into a pucker back string instead. Should I be mad at myself or did I do the right thing?
The kids seemed cool with my suit and they were polite. So maybe small steps and not shocking the shit out of them will help them open up and go to a smaller suit. Both guys had board shorts, one girl had a string the other more a brief type bottom.
Your thoughts please.

[tbdrawer]

You shouldn't be mad at yourself. You still represented against the norm swimwear for guys. You never know how mature that age group will be, so being able to feel comfortable and confidence in your choice is what matters. It's good they appeared to be respectful of your swimsuit. You still went pretty skimpy and sounds like you were still smaller than the females. Maybe you opened some eyes up, which is what we need.

[ralange]

You shouldn't be mad at yourself. You still represented against the norm swimwear for guys. You never know how mature that age group will be, so being able to feel comfortable and confidence in your choice is what matters. It's good they appeared to be respectful of your swimsuit. You still went pretty skimpy and sounds like you were still smaller than the females. Maybe you opened some eyes up, which is what we need.

Thanks Nate.

[TANGA TANGA]

So I was going to go to the hotel pool at 10:30pm in my black thong, which I have wore serveral times at this hotel. But I seen some younger people early 20's or so going in and I got cold feet. I went and changed into a pucker back string instead. Should I be mad at myself or did I do the right thing?
The kids seemed cool with my suit and they were polite. So maybe small steps and not shocking the shit out of them will help them open up and go to a smaller suit. Both guys had board shorts, one girl had a string the other more a brief type bottom.
Your thoughts please.

Hi Randy. I don't think you got cold feet and you definitely should not be mad at yourself. You assessed the situation and decided wisely, in my opinion, to forego the pleasures of a thong for one of your still racy string bikinis. Obviously if you had capitulated and swapped the black thong for a pair of dork shorts, I would have had no hesitation in calling on Nate to ban you from the blog and the forum for bringing shame on the family(lol), but you still had the spherical objects to show these youngsters that guys don't have to be limited to board shorts when it comes to choosing swimwear. Hopefully their brief exposure to your even briefer bikini(groan), might inspire them to experiment with other styles without shocking the sh*t out of their girlfriends(lol). We can always count on Randy to come up with a killer, no punches pulled turn of phrase.