Married and straight and thonging alone at home

[strings123]

I wear gstrings everyday days. My wife knows that. She doesn't want the kids to know though. I have no issue if my kids find out. I would say my wife tolerates my choice of underwear and not encourage.

As for walking around the house with just a gstring, that's only when the kids are not home.

that makes sense. That's quite daring to just wear g-strings. I'm sure the kids would not understand, so probably a good idea. Sort of the same situation with my wife, but only wear thongs in front of her during intimate times, which still does not turn her on!

[strings123]

Guys! When you and your wives are "preparing" to get "frisky" it would seem to me that, as the clothes come off, the sight of your thong as the "last step to victory" (!) would be quite a turn-on for your lady, especially as she takes her time easing it off in spite of a "slight stiffness" !! A quick "Final Maneuver" could produce quite a BOUNCE! Wouldn't it be a lot like their own private male-stripper show?!? (I don't recall reading that the Chippendales went a'quiverin' in bib overalls!!!) Could it be that your ladies are in for a treat?!?

Hey I wish that were the case. My wife thinks I just have a fetish and certainly doesn't get turned on. Part of the thrill for me wearing thongs is to impress the ladies (past and present) but it seems that this is a rarity nowadays. So, goes my struggle

[strings123]

For those of you that feel the need to wear thongs alone or without your partner knowing about it, you have my compassion. I do hope that the woman in your life finds the fun and pleasure of having a partner that wears a thong.

I have been most fortunate with the women in my life, both past and present. This is probably because I have never hid or shied away from wearing a thong around my intimate partners. I never made a big deal about wearing thongs. The first time being physically intimate with the woman in my life I have seen the surprise and interest in my thong. I’ve had initial questions and I simply, truthfully and confidently answer her questions. From there it has been easy to wear a thong. Especially easy when she started buying thongs for me to wear. Occasionally she has dug through my underwear drawer and she has made comments about the only thing she sees is thongs. It’s the same with swimwear. I have been asked to wear other types of underwear and have given it a try for her while explaining later how the trunk/brief/boxer-brief is not comfortable and not something I would wear except when she asks for it during playtime (even then I didn’t like them). Needless to say she got the hint and started buying sexier thongs for me to wear.

Hey, you have the ideal situation, which I wish I had. I always loved the idea of women wearing skimpy underwear but got into myself about 15 years ago, once I was already married. Wear thongs with wife during foreplay but she is not impressed to say the least. Like a lot of women I would say, that not only don't accept men wearing thongs etc, but have stopped wearing them as well! kind of a bummer all the way around

[_Pm77_]

I also have to wait until I’m at the house by myself to really dig into my stash, I usually wear a pair or two during the week. Why do you have to keep it to yourself? Does your wife not approve?

Hey,
thanks for writing. She only thinks I wear thongs during intimate times, which I do even though she thinks it's a bit weird. The other times, I keep private just because she doesn't seem to fully embrace it yet and definitely doesn't get turned on by them. how about yourself?

Sounds like we’re both in a pretty similar situation! Wish she’d be more open to my choice in undies, sure would make things a lot more fun.

[BuffaloChip]

Wish I had more alone time at home to do this but both my wife and I work from home. If I have a few minutes during the work day I'll take my pants off and work in my thong at my standing desk.

I'm also interested to hear if your wife doesn't approve of your thong wearing

That's good that you at least have some time. Does your wife wear thongs?

For me, she only thinks I wear thongs during times of intimacy and even then she's not fully into it. During the other times, I keep it secret. Wish she would understand a bit more

My wife wears thongs everyday and bikinis to bed. She thinks thongs are comfortable but wears them primarily to eliminate panty lines

[strings123]

Wish I had more alone time at home to do this but both my wife and I work from home. If I have a few minutes during the work day I'll take my pants off and work in my thong at my standing desk.

I'm also interested to hear if your wife doesn't approve of your thong wearing

That's good that you at least have some time. Does your wife wear thongs?

For me, she only thinks I wear thongs during times of intimacy and even then she's not fully into it. During the other times, I keep it secret. Wish she would understand a bit more

My wife wears thongs everyday and bikinis to bed. She thinks thongs are comfortable but wears them primarily to eliminate panty lines

That's great that she at least wears them. It would be better if she wore them for more seductive purposes. so does she approve your wearing thongs?

[strings123]

I also have to wait until I’m at the house by myself to really dig into my stash, I usually wear a pair or two during the week. Why do you have to keep it to yourself? Does your wife not approve?

Hey,
thanks for writing. She only thinks I wear thongs during intimate times, which I do even though she thinks it's a bit weird. The other times, I keep private just because she doesn't seem to fully embrace it yet and definitely doesn't get turned on by them. how about yourself?

Sounds like we’re both in a pretty similar situation! Wish she’d be more open to my choice in undies, sure would make things a lot more fun.

this site is really crappy by the way in terms of navigating. how long have you been married? kids? For me it sucks when the woman is not into thongs etc. Every guy should own at least 1 thong, just like every woman should have one as well (even those who aren't totally intot them).

[LJSF27]

For those of you that feel the need to wear thongs alone or without your partner knowing about it, you have my compassion. I do hope that the woman in your life finds the fun and pleasure of having a partner that wears a thong.

I have been most fortunate with the women in my life, both past and present. This is probably because I have never hid or shied away from wearing a thong around my intimate partners. I never made a big deal about wearing thongs. The first time being physically intimate with the woman in my life I have seen the surprise and interest in my thong. I’ve had initial questions and I simply, truthfully and confidently answer her questions. From there it has been easy to wear a thong. Especially easy when she started buying thongs for me to wear. Occasionally she has dug through my underwear drawer and she has made comments about the only thing she sees is thongs. It’s the same with swimwear. I have been asked to wear other types of underwear and have given it a try for her while explaining later how the trunk/brief/boxer-brief is not comfortable and not something I would wear except when she asks for it during playtime (even then I didn’t like them). Needless to say she got the hint and started buying sexier thongs for me to wear.

I agree. I wore thongs before I was married, and my wife enjoys the fact that I wear them. I think for those who have issues with thongs (which I will never fully understand), it is harder if it is a change in behavior, which leads them to speculate. I wonder what is the best way to broach the subject to reduce speculation.

[BuffaloChip]

That's good that you at least have some time. Does your wife wear thongs?

For me, she only thinks I wear thongs during times of intimacy and even then she's not fully into it. During the other times, I keep it secret. Wish she would understand a bit more

My wife wears thongs everyday and bikinis to bed. She thinks thongs are comfortable but wears them primarily to eliminate panty lines

That's great that she at least wears them. It would be better if she wore them for more seductive purposes. so does she approve your wearing thongs?

She's ambivalent to me wearing thongs but I'm hoping it grows on her

[Guitar T]

I think the best way to broach the subject of wearing thongs is to be open, honest, direct and confident. Early on in a past relationship I was asked why I don’t wear “regular “ underwear and swimwear. I told her I enjoy the way I feel wearing a thong. It makes me feel more sexy, free and comfortable. I explained how uncomfortable briefs and especially boxer-briefs were for me. I explained how I like the way the thong frames my buns, how much I like a thong tan line and how sometimes I feel just a little bit “naughty” when wearing a thong. I was open about how much I enjoy seeing other people wearing thong swimwear. It’s sexy as Hell I think we’re my exact words. I told her that wearing a thong makes me want to be in better shape. Wearing a thong makes me think of sexy thoughts and the fun we could have together. I explained how I’ve never been a traditionalist with my clothing and a thong is just one more piece of clothing that is not traditional. She already knew I was not your typical male dresser from the bright colors to the playful prints and the theme dressing for events I create. And for a little kick, I told her I wear a thong so she has a better feel when she wants to take a handful.

My current relationship has never been an issue with my choice of clothing. She knew what she was getting very early on and found it playful and fun. She knows I am who I am and accepts me for that and so much more. So, from my experience, it is better to be open, honest, direst and confident. Besides if your partner is already committed to you a tiny piece of clothing shouldn’t break things apart.