The Bottom Drawer Forums

I live in Spain and, through two popular peer-to-peer trading platforms, Vinted and Wallapop (also present in other Western European countries), I have bought and sold underwear, both new and used, but clean.

Well, these purely commercial contacts have led in several cases to very interesting conversations about men's underwear, both with buyers and sellers, through WhatsApp, Telegram or telephone. I even met in person with three of those contacts, both in my city and in other Spanish cities, and I maintain regular telephone contact with six people.

We talk about underwear and swimwear, lamenting the limited use of clothing with little fabric, such as sports briefs, bikinis, thongs, jockstraps, ... both in underwear and on the beach and we comment on our drawers, new acquisitions and trends.

We usually send each other photographs to see our collections and acquisitions.

Anyway, very interesting.

ThongBum wrote: Thu Oct 26, 2023 2:31 am I get where you’re coming from. There seem to be lots of gay centric underwear sites that focus more on sex than underwear. I’m not interested in that in the slightest. And I have little interest in posting pics online because of unwanted sexual comments.

So honestly this forum seems to be the best place to talk about underwear. Not sure I’d really want to talk about such things in person.

It is all about the bulge. I am an older Bear who posts photos of my very flat-front gaff thongs & bikinis, and I only get nice comments, never any sexual comments. A few women ask to take selfies with me as I roam the beach, otherwise I am "invisible".

I actually did go swimming on a couple of occasions with board members and on both occasions it went very well . A coffee and a swim and a chat with no issues about swimwear and all it’s facets . We still keep in touch from time to time and pretty much keep on topic . It is nice not having to go through any preamble because it is a shared minority interest .