Advice

[Miguel05]

Miguel, I want to thank YOU for the kind words! I want to cover two points with you. ONE: it appears that the best person to talk to is the youth pastor. It appears that you trust him. Remember, he was your age once, and also had questions and concerns along the lines of yours.Since underwear is a garment of a personal nature (hidden by our clothes in everyday life), who knows, he might enjoy microwear himself! You are at an age where negotiation (as a lifelong skill) can be learned and mastered, so...have at it! Ask him for an appointment to discuss a private matter. I remember reading about one of President Kennedy's leading leadership points some years ago, and I try to practice it in all of my one-on-one interactions...establish steady eye contact with the other person. It is not a stare! You are establishing an open, empathetic connection, and projecting self-confidence. You have a goal in mind, and negotiating is part of your action plan to reach your goal. Establish some key talking points about why you would like to try men's thong underwear. Speak in a relaxed manner, making your points. Allow time for his response. The conversation is a two-way street, and, even at 15 years old, you are a young adult, and deserve a chance to state your views and make your case. (Two hints for talking points: personal comfort and support provided by a garment which is not visible to others in everyday life/ overall comfort in the Texas heat!) TWO: there is nothing unusual about your having concerns about sexuality in general, or your own sexuality in particular. It is an important, even necessary, step in your adult sexual maturity. You are indeed at the age where thoughts and questions about your own orientation will come to mind. You are establishing very important building blocks for your own lifelong approach to intimacy with a partner. Give yourself the time, and freedom, to make your way along this part of your life journey. The single best way to start this journey involves a key non-sexual aspect: work to make caring friendships with the other people in your life, not only fellow young men and young women, but also caring adults. Get involved in group activities with your peers, especially groups organized around your hobbies or favorite activities. Be open and friendly; learn to express yourself with poise. In time, you will start gaining a sense of who you are attracted to as a possible partner: trust me, it will happen at the right time for you! Yep, that's right! It's called...Life's Journey! Live well!

Hi mircobikiniman

Thank you so much for the advice. I really appreciate the advice you and everybody has given me these past few days. Thank y’all so much and I have a lot to learn and think about it for sure and i appreciate your explaining to me basically how I feel when it comes to sexuality. You and many others have made me real comfortable talking about things so personal and I really do appreciate it again. As far as youth pastor I would say you’re right I may have to ask him and I will follow the tips that you gave me on just being direct with him and giving him good reasons. That would be cool if he likes what you said small underwear I never thought of that but it would be funny to ask haha I will think of what and how I want to ask and will maybe ask him sometime during the week or maybe Sunday if possible we’ll see. I definitely don’t want to wing it I want to think it through for sure. Again thank you so much for your help and everyone has been so nice I appreciate it I really do and I want to say thank you for all the info you gave me definitely good things to know.

[DownUnder]

Is there any place that might have in store like department store?

The Babylon Store ones you are after are available in their store, but that's in Mexico.

I did get them w lot and may need a pouch with little more room if possible.

You won't need a pouch with more room to cater for an erection. The fabric does that for you. As long as they fit well while flaccid, and they must, as that's your usual state, they will still fit well when erect. The ones you are looking at are 88% polyamide (that's generic Nylon) and 12% elastane (generic Lycra). The polyamide has a bit of stretch and the elastane has quite a bit, so you won't have any trouble with fit as long as the fit is initially good. It should feel a little bit snug, but not squishing. If it is too tight, it going to get too uncomfortable before too long.

I think if you can discuss this with the pastor, as long as it does not turn religious about going to hell, then it might help. If your volunteer (do you know who this is yet, I mean not his name, but is he young or old) has to discuss this about internet purchasing with someone else at the orphanage, then if the pastor knows about it he could provide support for you.

[Microbikiniman]

Hi, Miguel! I'm sure I speak for the other guys as well as myself in saying that we appreciate your courage and desire to reach out to us for advice about important matters in leading a fulfilling life. I hope you will have a chance to study anatomy and learn all you can about this marvelous creation called the human body! Please keep us informed about your talk with the youth pastor. He will be in a position to talk to the fireman shopping with you. Have faith in your ability to make a good impression on him, or, for that matter, on anyone with whom you interact! Be well!

[Miguel05]

Is there any place that might have in store like department store?

The Babylon Store ones you are after are available in their store, but that's in Mexico.

I did get them w lot and may need a pouch with little more room if possible.

You won't need a pouch with more room to cater for an erection. The fabric does that for you. As long as they fit well while flaccid, and they must, as that's your usual state, they will still fit well when erect. The ones you are looking at are 88% polyamide (that's generic Nylon) and 12% elastane (generic Lycra). The polyamide has a bit of stretch and the elastane has quite a bit, so you won't have any trouble with fit as long as the fit is initially good. It should feel a little bit snug, but not squishing. If it is too tight, it going to get too uncomfortable before too long.

I think if you can discuss this with the pastor, as long as it does not turn religious about going to hell, then it might help. If your volunteer (do you know who this is yet, I mean not his name, but is he young or old) has to discuss this about internet purchasing with someone else at the orphanage, then if the pastor knows about it he could provide support for you.

Hi downunder I see what you mean so if I am looking for something that stretches that material would be good. I see thank you and yes I realized that the brand is from Mexico so that may be out of question is there any American brands similar to those? Also I do know the guys name and he is younger but based on from I have been thinking I may just ask the pastor since I am closer to him and your right I didn’t think it that the volunteer would have to probably ask someone to get me that and they may turn down

[Miguel05]

Hi, Miguel! I'm sure I speak for the other guys as well as myself in saying that we appreciate your courage and desire to reach out to us for advice about important matters in leading a fulfilling life. I hope you will have a chance to study anatomy and learn all you can about this marvelous creation called the human body! Please keep us informed about your talk with the youth pastor. He will be in a position to talk to the fireman shopping with you. Have faith in your ability to make a good impression on him, or, for that matter, on anyone with whom you interact! Be well!

Thank you so much and your right it’s hard to have good diet but have to try and thank you so much for your advice and yes I will most definitely keep up to date about when I ask him. Wish me luck

[DownUnder]

Miguel, If the discussion gets a bit tough for you, I think you could always refer the pastor to this website, and in particular, your topic here. It would show that you are genuinely interested in trying a thong and that it is for the comfort and sexiness factors and nothing else.

[Miguel05]

Miguel, If the discussion gets a bit tough for you, I think you could always refer the pastor to this website, and in particular, your topic here. It would show that you are genuinely interested in trying a thong and that it is for the comfort and sexiness factors and nothing else.

That’s a great idea definitely will show it’s for the interests of comfort and sexiness like you said thank you

[CrossfiThong]

Hello Miguel,

first, welcome, you are very young to be here tho, but I get it, I started being curious when I was 13 yo. so, welcome.

Well, since you are in a very particular situation it may be tough to get what you want, so I will give you this advice. Different than the majority of us you have technology on your side, so, use it, I am assuming that you have a smartphone.

I would do this. I would download amazon, amazon has plenty of options for thongs, you can look for thongs there with way better prince and quality. Also a lot of people use amazon as their first online store option; so, that being said, one of the biggest tricks from amazon is that it save your search story and even if you look for something else, it is going to show you what you previously look for. so amazon is going to be your biggest help here.

Whenever you go with the fire-fighter to the store, go to the underwear section and start looking for some bikinis, and I am telling why, bikinis are more acceptable in the sociality, specially in USA, so whoever you don't find then, ask the firefighter question about what you are looking for, so, he is going to trying to help, but because probably they are not going to be able in the store (because the uptight America) you will take you phone and you will show him a bikini you have been looking for on amazon. but because you previously were looking for thong, amazon is going to show those options too.

So, once he sees what you are looking for, observe his reaction, and if he act friendly about it, he maybe suggest that he can get them for you and he may ask what else are you interested.

So, if you show him a bikini in your phone, you are going to make a save step to see if he is ok with that idea or not, and that way you don't have to expose your curiosity to someone may not taking it in the right way.

So. I hope this help you, and let us know if you have other question.

Also, I don't want to sound inappropriate but if you have other questions, I can help you with whatever is in my hands to help.

Good luck

[Miguel05]

Hello Miguel,

first, welcome, you are very young to be here tho, but I get it, I started being curious when I was 13 yo. so, welcome.

Well, since you are in a very particular situation it may be tough to get what you want, so I will give you this advice. Different than the majority of us you have technology on your side, so, use it, I am assuming that you have a smartphone.

I would do this. I would download amazon, amazon has plenty of options for thongs, you can look for thongs there with way better prince and quality. Also a lot of people use amazon as their first online store option; so, that being said, one of the biggest tricks from amazon is that it save your search story and even if you look for something else, it is going to show you what you previously look for. so amazon is going to be your biggest help here.

Whenever you go with the fire-fighter to the store, go to the underwear section and start looking for some bikinis, and I am telling why, bikinis are more acceptable in the sociality, specially in USA, so whoever you don't find then, ask the firefighter question about what you are looking for, so, he is going to trying to help, but because probably they are not going to be able in the store (because the uptight America) you will take you phone and you will show him a bikini you have been looking for on amazon. but because you previously were looking for thong, amazon is going to show those options too.

So, once he sees what you are looking for, observe his reaction, and if he act friendly about it, he maybe suggest that he can get them for you and he may ask what else are you interested.

So, if you show him a bikini in your phone, you are going to make a save step to see if he is ok with that idea or not, and that way you don't have to expose your curiosity to someone may not taking it in the right way.

So. I hope this help you, and let us know if you have other question.

Also, I don't want to sound inappropriate but if you have other questions, I can help you with whatever is in my hands to help.

Good luck

Thank you so much for the input and I definitely will keep that in mind for sure. I didn’t think about that. That’s a good way to get his reaction without just coming out and asking for it for sure. Definitely will keep that in mind and thank you for making yourself available for contact that really means a lot to me i appreciate it

[Miguel05]

Welcome to the forum!

I think that, most likely you'll have to order your thongs online. I know of no brick & mortar stores that stock their shelves with men's thongs (of bikinis) anymore. Even Wal Mart stopped carrying them in-store.

I would like to suggest some thongs that I know you will love, I hope you try them and come to love wearing them as much as I do!
https://www.aliexpress.us/item/32568035 ... _shipto=US

Most definitely hard to find but is there any stores that have them in stock even at mall it would be nice to see in person but I will definitely keep an eye on some from Amazon and the ones you mentioned thank you so much for your help