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Chubnative wrote: Sun Dec 06, 2020 10:45 pm A friend and I were shopping at Walmart and she was looking at the jeans in the men's department and asked what size do I wear. I told her. Nothing was my size. So we moved on. And we get to the women's department and they had section of plus size clothing. I'm looking at jeans from 1x to 6x and everything from regular fit to skinny fit.

Chubnative wrote: Sun Dec 06, 2020 10:45 pm Well all I have to is that us bigger guys have a hard time finding good bikini or thong underwear. I've tried CK, Jockey, male power, even the jflife and hanes. All the problems I've had with these brands was they rolled down at the waistband, especially when you are walking around. Having to adjust them in the middle of grocery shopping is a pain in the ass.
A friend and I were shopping at Walmart and she was looking at the jeans in the men's department and asked what size do I wear. I told her. Nothing was my size. So we moved on. And we get to the women's department and they had section of plus size clothing. I'm looking at jeans from 1x to 6x and everything from regular fit to skinny fit. She looks at me and asks if I want to try some on.
So to make a long story short I did, they fit and they are so comfortable. After that I went back and bought four more pairs of pants and I did a little foray into the panty section and found me some underwear that my friend recommended. They are very comfortable and there is no problem of my goods fallen out. I went walking in them for my two mile walk and they didn't roll down or slip down. They did ride up but I like that giving me a cheeky look and feel.
So I guess I can close my epic rant by saying that in general clothing companies need to get over their discrimination of fat people. Especially underwear companies or designers. I get that they look better on a fit body but you are not going to see me wear them in front of you.

P.s. I tried the hanes bikini briefs in a 3x size they were like wearing a full size brief. They were tight in the front and baggy in the back. No thanks. I'll keep my panties on for now until someone designs good fitting bikini underwear for my size.

NoOnesOnion87 wrote: Sat Mar 28, 2026 3:31 pm

Chubnative wrote: Sun Dec 06, 2020 10:45 pm Well all I have to is that us bigger guys have a hard time finding good bikini or thong underwear. I've tried CK, Jockey, male power, even the jflife and hanes. All the problems I've had with these brands was they rolled down at the waistband, especially when you are walking around. Having to adjust them in the middle of grocery shopping is a pain in the ass.
A friend and I were shopping at Walmart and she was looking at the jeans in the men's department and asked what size do I wear. I told her. Nothing was my size. So we moved on. And we get to the women's department and they had section of plus size clothing. I'm looking at jeans from 1x to 6x and everything from regular fit to skinny fit. She looks at me and asks if I want to try some on.
So to make a long story short I did, they fit and they are so comfortable. After that I went back and bought four more pairs of pants and I did a little foray into the panty section and found me some underwear that my friend recommended. They are very comfortable and there is no problem of my goods fallen out. I went walking in them for my two mile walk and they didn't roll down or slip down. They did ride up but I like that giving me a cheeky look and feel.
So I guess I can close my epic rant by saying that in general clothing companies need to get over their discrimination of fat people. Especially underwear companies or designers. I get that they look better on a fit body but you are not going to see me wear them in front of you.

P.s. I tried the hanes bikini briefs in a 3x size they were like wearing a full size brief. They were tight in the front and baggy in the back. No thanks. I'll keep my panties on for now until someone designs good fitting bikini underwear for my size.

This whole fat acceptance thing that's been going on for the past five or six years yeah of course for women it's great you can buy pretty much anything that the skinnier girls wear but in sizes made to fit you; but for men there's no such thing as fat acceptance. It's still the old standard of fat shaming, and if a man with a 42 or 44 inch waist, who dares to wear a swim bikini or a thong to a beach, then the verbal knives come out and he's attacked, mocked, ridiculed, scorned and laughed at especially if somebody video-records what he's wearing and puts it on social media so other people can laugh at him and tease him.

Cachondo wrote: Tue Mar 31, 2026 5:19 am Some years ago, I had a friend ask me for help finding him some sexy swim briefs/Speedo that he could wear to pool parties. He was a bigger guy, around 6 feet tall and around 250 lbs and I remember the both of us had a lot of trouble looking, even on different sites online. The main problem we kept coming across online is that we couldn't find anything for his waist size, since his waist was about 40 inches.

Thonglover8k wrote: Tue Mar 31, 2026 4:15 pm

Cachondo wrote: Tue Mar 31, 2026 5:19 am Some years ago, I had a friend ask me for help finding him some sexy swim briefs/Speedo that he could wear to pool parties. He was a bigger guy, around 6 feet tall and around 250 lbs and I remember the both of us had a lot of trouble looking, even on different sites online. The main problem we kept coming across online is that we couldn't find anything for his waist size, since his waist was about 40 inches.

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