My wife is more old-fashioned with her swimwear. She wears thong underwear but not bathing suits. But that's a great idea to walk around and see what others are wearing.Microbikiniman wrote: Tue Mar 31, 2026 12:35 pm John, here are a couple of thoughts which came to mind. Before you and your wife head out to the pool, walk by there and see what the other guests are wearing. The chances are fairly good that some of the guys and gals are wearing microwear of various types. Also, what sort of swimwear does your wife like? If bikinis or the like, why shouldn't her man dress in the same manner?No reason why the two of you can't be the "Hot Couple," and show 'em how it's done! There is nothing wrong (or obscene) about a couple who are confident in their own skin!
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